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there is something about a cold mcdonalds softserve, i seem to crave it once in a while idk why while mildly expensive 300 rupees small scoop ice creams dont leave you with the same i want more or the once in a while craving. Maybe its the texture or how cold soft serve is. hagen-daz, baskin,apsara,naturals dont come close to mcdonalds soft serve. Kuch toh baat hai usme. What i dont know. not just the soft serve but even the cone that comes with the soft serve it is ultra light and different compared to cones you get elsewhere. Ikeas ligonberry jam softserve comes close, and a specific gelato i had in europe 2-3 summers ago. Other than that nothing else comes close in flavour,texture and how cold everything feels.

plain vanilla soft serve, no flavours nothing.

i am 28, dont like to party,loud music,posting everything on social media,prefer quiet time,gaming listening to podcasts on weekends reading, cooking,working out, hiking and wearing crocs,loose shorts,tshirts and to dress casually(not on dates,events etc ) but otherwise to office,malls, markets everywhere else shorts(american tech company) ,tshirt,crocs.

Where do i find similar simple folks of the opposite gender. people who read,cook,workout,small nerdish circle of friends and not be bothered by pop culture,hype trends and anything else.

everyone i have met through arrange marriage sites,circles,mutuals etc seem to be super social,non introverted,very active on instagram and just addicted to either showing off or following trends,constantly scrolling,asking for fancy vacations(i like to travel too but not to show off on instagram) , not grounded.

basically folks who dress simple usually not always just usally(simple kurti jeans), introverted/ambivert, make good money(work in tech or finance or something) yet are grounded.

why has everything turned into a massive show off on Instagram race, where did simple life go.

got this am prospect through mutual circle her insta bio has age, then queen(crown) emoji followed by snapchat id in instagram bio..... my mom does not seem to understand why i am saying no to this..... how do i even explain this to my mom.

my parents tell me you shouldn't turn her down,she is educated comes from a decent similar background(equal to us financially and business wise,business community),your astrological chart matches,her parents are decent etc etc there's a strong match etc etc. Alteast meet her tomorrow.

I come from a software engineering,hardwarehacking, and opensource tech background,not really social, most of my friends(men,women) spend their weekends either hiking or cooking,yoga,reading,working out alone. I prefer simple people shorts,tshirt,crocs,simple jeans kurti crocs kind of people/women maybe which is why i find the snap-chat thing weird.

got the thermal right lga 1700 contact frame, board is matx asus z690m-prime-d4. i am worried about the frame being metal and compatibility.

What consequences would one face if they interfere in a path planned for and given to a person by maa herself(mahakali,maha saraswati,mahalaxmi).

Example : if she were to give that person a path out of his problems but a person they trust were to interfere, what would the person have to go through.

15 years ago when i was 16 i was introduced to a guru through a neighbor,not even introduced like my mom literally had a dream of a man carrying books over his head emerging from a river, we did not know this man,had never seen, when i was going through a super tough time academically a year later from the dream we were told there is this person who can help, now this man(i dont even want to call him a guru anymore) was a normal lawyer,with a family kids, etc, own corporate legal practice at a large scale, your normal upper middle class, upper class person. Nothing fancy. Belived in mediation,disciplined life, satvik food everything standard stuff no tantra,no ego,no anger. Gave diksha, mantras to folks , We used to meet rather a lot of people used to meet every Thursday for sadhna etc. A normal family man, no money involved no fancy clothing nothing. I was introduced to sadna and everything through this way. if youd meet him in his daily life you'd thing he is a nobody just a common man.

I have seen this person calling up someone before a accident literally and telling them i cannot prevent what has to happen from happening but can reduce the severity you'd be okay dw and them literally cheating death. I have seen some magical things.

Saved me twice, i was sturggling academically in engineering cant go into details, i have seen peoples lives get actively fixed by him not just mine. i was doing well professionally at a big tech firm etc etc.

This is pre covid.

cut to 2021 , i had a very good opportunity and good life lined up abroad, something i had been working towards for years like 10 years of hardwork,savings everything. The whole reason i did engineering and went through so much struggle was to move out due to some personal reasons. i was told not to go, i asked why he said just dont time is not right. Fine. you have a better future here But what followed was even worse, i almost lost my job twice, me and my mom almost got murdered by a mob after they hit my mom in a park while playing cricket, instead of apologizing tried to murder, i saw some of the worst office politics and someone trying to kill themselves and things i just cant unsee and the trauma that haunts me, lots of struggle professionally, financially, financial pressure, i was slated to be married only for the person to break it off 30 days before the engagement because they found someone living abroad. In college i used to intern at a certain very sought after big tech firm. I had put in a lot of hard work and a path charted out. life is the exact opposite. I feel i was deliberately pushed on to a path of suffering.

I had asked the aforementioned person(i wont refer as guru anymore) and i only kept getting reasons originally why i was told no to puruse a good path and opportunity i had in life, i was given the reason you would have gotten addicted to hookups etc , recently the reason changed to you would have been implicated in a crime you did not commit.

He also told me you'd see there is better path charted out for you, you will see in 2 months, 2 months turned to years. Constant bullshitting,lying, also claimed i am like saibaba and one 2 more big names i shall not name as to not insult them. You dont know. i clearly asked for answers and showed how what you said every theory falls flat on its face, the amount of pain my mom has gone through because of this and the constant fake hope etc. Also suggested i should marry a certain person (who after a background search turned out to be a alcoholic,addicted to certain thing and living a lifestyle opposite of sadhna). This would have never happened before.

Also recently around last year something positive for once had happened. As soon as he heard this news, that thing first postoponed and then just became irrelevant.I have literally seen something i had in my hand for it to get cancelled. its like this person does not want to see me progress.

i am mostly angry because my mother went through hell and back to get me to where i should have been, my struggling due to learning disabilities, my dad cheating, her years of sadhna, her constantly supporting me through though academic situations(india sucks when it comes to accessibiity and educational accesibility if you are neurodiverse) laws exists but if you do try to complain or implement them teachers in schools colleges will ensure you never pass(seen this with friends). Something is very off, good things swiped out , my mom has faced so much emotional distress, increasing financial pressure as she has retired and i make a okayish salary, me aging no being able to get married because of this. One decision leading to so many consequences , i would have had a very good life abroad, jobs, scholarships lined up. Most of my college class mates who graduated without even owning a laptop,copying assignments barely even writing a single line of code in engineering have good careers.

Its like i was ahead only to be pulled back and pushed into something way worse. especially the recent incident of that would have partially fixed somethings, something positive for once had happened. As soon as he heard this news, that thing first postoponed and then just became irrelevant.I have literally seen something i had in my hand for it to get cancelled. its like this person does not want to see me progress. This is before the gaslighting and me realizing something has changed.

He used to be a very very different person before.Similarly with another person who couldn't conceive, they are sadhaks too, he has gaslight them into thinking they are at fault you couldnt absorb what blessing was given for you to conceive and was literally shouting at them,calling them names etc.

Its like 2 different people pre covid and post 2023.......... unrecognizable..... He has also stopped meeting anyone since 2023 aswell. usually used to meet for sadhna etc. I had reached out for help to his fellow sadhaks who had learned this from the same guru my(ex lets say guru had learned from) and they said we will not interfere as we are not allowed to in others.

TLDR: guru(normal man with normal job,family etc but 100% with siddhis, no money ever involved) since 2023 seems to be directing people on the wrong path,gaslighting them,false promises,lies,blames,ego. A very different person than they were pre 2020.

I want to mount fans as intake as i have a small case and my aio sucks up all the 80*c hot gpu air as exhaust, my radiators feels super hot to touch too. Want to seup fans as intake sort of a push pull config intake fans -rad-pull fans.

I am worried long screws on the other(non tube side) might peicre or something.

Is this normal, outside ambient temps are 35*c , mounted as exhaust. ran chinabench at 180w mode i got 84*C cpu temp at 230w i got 102*c. I have never used a aio before,always used air cooling dual towers. i expected temps to be around 80*c at 230w.

are there any large parks in tathawade, daily walk, going for a run etc. Lots of trees , manicured lawn, yoga space etc.

Switched to asus default profile on my 14600k paired with asus z690m-d4 baord sustained 5.5 ghz at 175w watt peak and 87*C on a air cooler with outside ambient temps of 45*C in the tropics. The intel default profile throttled my cpu and tried to push it to 250w ran at 1.54 v which is unsafe and pushed my cpu to 107*C at 160w at which point it throttled.

i want to understand why is the intel default profile so bad. undervolting does not work too.