Serious question - why do men have to be ‘lucky’ to have sex?
Please tell me why it feels as a man that it’s becoming normal to feel ‘lucky’ to get sex. I can’t understand why it’s not normal for both people in a relationship of a male and female to both want sex the same amount or maybe even that the women gets ‘lucky’ if she gets sex.
I saw a stat saying 1 in 3 married men and 1 in married 5 women haven’t had sex in over a year and that’s insane to me.
Of course I understand that men and women are different in so many ways and men tend to get turned on much easier but I just think we shouldn’t feel lucky as such to get sex as that makes it seem women are just doing it because we want to instead of both feeling desire to have sex!
Birth control does so have a massive affect and it’s sad we live in a time where we have to alter emotions of a women’s body to not have kids for a certain period but that’s life.
Any personal stories or answers would be great!