Im a guy, and Ive noticed a pattern among women that promotes being single.
I get it, marriage can be scarier and riskier for women, than it is for men. Its obvious. Mainly because of the physical differences, and overall.
I get it but when I eventually marry a girl, I dont want someone who praised being single, or celebrated not being in a relationship.
My sister, she shares stuff on her social media such as;
"He isnt competing with other guys, hes competing with how happy im being single"
And that kinda mindset is so unattractive to me. Why would you make your future partner feel unwanted before even meeting them?
Imagine she gets married one day, then does she delete her posts? What happens if her husband sees them? Wouldn't he feel sad?
Another type of posts she shares is:
"keep a life outside of your husband" kinda quotes.
Like its true, its healthy to be in your own presence. But why do you have to make it your whole personality?
It just screams me, me, me and only me, nobody can tell me what to do, my life my rules. If you think this way, isnt it better to be single anyways?
I just wanted to know are majority women like this? Because I already know atleast 5 women like this. Maybe more
Won't I get to marry a woman who yearned to be in love and to be intimate? To have a family and all just like being lovey dovey stuff.
Do you romanticize being single or being in a relationship?
Personally for me I really wanna experience love and cuddling, have a family and just grow old together stuff.