u/Critical_Brother977

For some pre-context, this is my first ‘relationship’, first time actually talking to a girl, first everything tbh. We are based in the States.

She’s a nice girl I like her, and we’ve been talking for a while. She’s usually kinda sweet in person or when we’re together but I have some concerns.

She’s a little mean tbh. In the beginning I thought it was playful banter and I would playfully be mean too, but I’m not sure if she’s joking or not anymore. She calls me idiot alot, don’t know if she really means it or not. When I show her things/photos she kinda disregards it or just talks down abt it, idk how to phrase it. She’s also not the “lovely” typer. She acts nonchalant and it bothers be a little bit. I try to say “cute” things and ig try to be nice but I feel like she doesn’t acknowledge or appreciate it. Idk if it’s something I’m doing wrong, I don’t have much/any experience with women.

I don’t really care that much ik I’m not supposed to be feeling these kinda emotions and stuff but sometimes it hurts a tiny bit and just makes me overthink. I just wish she was more expressive and like the ‘gf’ type if u get what im trynna say. Yeah so idk if im just deeping this too much orrrr

Is it legal if I wanted to put a yellow tint on my drls?

Assalamulaikum, need some advice regarding this matter.

I used to masturbate a lot, like everyday almost and I’ve been trying to stop for the past 2-3 weeks. I’ve been trying in the past as well, but I always succumb to it and end up giving in. I figured that maybe cold turkey might not be the way for me, so I’ve limited it to doing it once a week if I really really have to. I still feel like crap right after which isn’t nice. I’m thinking that hopefully by controlling myself this way I can eventually eliminate it totally.

I’ve tried making dua but I’m not sure if it’d working or not. Some of y’all might say to pray or make more dua but I feel like it’s not working for me. I just want to know how you guys stopped from this habit