u/CringeLatte

I tried to explain to him, "hey you jumped and hit me with your knee or elbow"

He likes to climb on the living room sofas, and sometimes he'll step on my hair or jump on me where he gets tangled in my hair and pulls it.

I'll explain to him "hey be careful with my hair" or "Don't jump on me anymore, you just really hurt me" and he just continues doing his thing and says "No I didn't" and goes back to ignoring my instruction.

I pull him off the couch and ask him to not play there anymore.

But he just goes right back to it. I'm frustrated. I feel like a horrible parent. I woke up feeling shitty today and everything is just overstimulating and I told him to go away and quite climbing on me, or near me. And I snapped and yelled at him. And I just don't know, I'm tired of repeating myself over and over.

I don't count with a support system to say "Hey I'll watch him so you can rest in silence or do something you want to" My partner has his office that he runs to and locks the door. I have the bathroom or the living room to "hide" and get 2 seconds of silence before it's "Mom MOMMOMMOOOOOOM momMooooom I want (item, snack food, drink ECT) "

He's been hopping around me all day just there. Tantrums tantrums since 7:30am.

I have 3 of the most recent moments he's just been acting like an asshole over nothing, but when he thinks he deserves a pat on the head, I have to be kind to him. Stupid mind games he's playing I'm sick of this shit.

Fast forward to yesterday were visiting his mother, we get home exhausted from the trip down, I see him cooking dinner, my son's sitting at the table , so I assume he was gonna feed our child. I take the plate sitting in front of my son and start cutting up the pieces as I would normally do.

So my partner flips the fuck out, calling me all types of R words and just full on tantrum about me cutting up the pork chop on a plate infront of our son, said it was his and that he asked our kid if he wanted dinner and he said no. So I told him, sorry I thought it was his since it's right Infront of him. He tried to continue his screaming match with me. So I just told him he needed to shut up because it was an honest mistake.

About an hour later he came crawling up to me, saying he was sorry he spoke to me that way and started groping me in places, I didn't even want him around me at this point.

And again today, I'm just minding my business, he comes in yelling that because my ghetto ass dogs (I have 2 dogs) he can't take his mom's dog home with him for a check up. Because then the house would look ghetto and trashy.

That it's just the R word that I had to pick up dogs from the street and make the house sound ghetto. (My dogs do not bark at random hours during the day, only when someone's at the door that they don't recognize. )

We've been together for 6+ years we have a child together and all of the sudden, everything I've been doing for our child or the fact that I provide a temporary home for street dogs is now a reason for him to make me feel like I'm walking on eggshells.

I have a gut feeling, that I've already had before.

I'm not sure whether it's that or what.

How do I bring this up to him?

the recent change in mood is really starting to affect me and our son, it's becoming more frequent he insults me in these ways and is getting more and more comfortable doing it.

TL;DR My partner of 6+years recently started getting a weird change of attitude towards me starting confrontation about petty things/things that didn't bother him before.

Feels like walking on eggshells that you don't know if he's walking in a room to rant /complain about something or if he comes in peace. I have a gut feeling

Edit I removed a situation involving our son, as per the comment that is placed under the post.

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I've been doing this with my kid on and off for the past couple weeks. The days we "workout" he sleeps better and wakes up in a better mood, still has his moments. But definitely a way to play with kiddo before bed and tired them out before bath time.

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I remember the early events from avakinlife, they were on top of everything.

This is so sad to see as a returning user.