u/Cool_Ship_5032

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If you’re 5’6+ and don’t pass as male you’re not trying

Passing is genuinely easy if you’re ftm, the only thing that can make you look clocky is height.

If you’re 5’5 or under youre cooked forever and doomed to look 12, but w enough effort u can slightly uncook yourself, mainly tren + working out to look like some kinda homunculus, but at least an adult

I’m just sick of seeing people complain about not passing or seeing people who don’t pass and they’re tall cause how are you wasting your potential it is not hard bro

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u/Cool_Ship_5032 — 21 hours ago

Im posting this here and on r/asklgbt for more opinions

Basically I am 18, and am transsex ftm. I first realised at 6, came out at 11 socially, then 14 to family. I started testosterone at 15, and have been stealth since 16 when I started sixth form.

I met my friend at school, and we’re in the same friend group and stuff. We hang out together a lot in and out of school. He’s straight (as am I), but recently he’s been kinda touchy with me. Like there’s been a few times when he hit me on the ass as a joke. Also, since I’m short (160) ive always gotten jokes about becoming a femboy (though that’s pretty much the only feminine thing about my frame, I have a passing face and work out regularly to the point I have abs and good biceps), but now he’s started making those types of jokes way more often.

Another thing which was kinda the main thing to set me off was recently I was staying over at his house overnight. We were watch in a movie together sat on a sofa, on opposite sides, then he got up to get a drink, and when he came back he sat closer to me, then started leaning against me. I said “this is hella gay” to get him to get off me but he just said “nah it’s not” and stayed there. Also idk how to explain it but recently there’s been some kinda change to the vibe of our friendship.

I’m worried that he’s realised I’m trans and is tryna fuck me or some shit cause he’s realised I have a pussy (for now) and he gets no girls, but I also could be paranoid and he’s just being weird

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u/Cool_Ship_5032 — 13 days ago

Im posting this here and on r/asktransgender for more opinions

Basically I am 18, and am transsex ftm. I first realised at 6, came out at 11 socially, then 14 to family. I started testosterone at 15, and have been stealth since 16 when I started sixth form.

I met my friend at school, and we’re in the same friend group and stuff. We hang out together a lot in and out of school. He’s straight (as am I), but recently he’s been kinda touchy with me. Like there’s been a few times when he hit me on the ass as a joke. Also, since I’m short (160) ive always gotten jokes about becoming a femboy (though that’s pretty much the only feminine thing about my frame, I have a passing face and work out regularly to the point I have abs and good biceps), but now he’s started making those types of jokes way more often.

Another thing which was kinda the main thing to set me off was recently I was staying over at his house overnight. We were watch in a movie together sat on a sofa, on opposite sides, then he got up to get a drink, and when he came back he sat closer to me, then started leaning against me. I said “this is hella gay” to get him to get off me but he just said “nah it’s not” and stayed there. Also idk how to explain it but recently there’s been some kinda change to the vibe of our friendship.

I’m worried that he’s realised I’m trans and is tryna fuck me or some shit cause he’s realised I have a pussy (for now) and he gets no girls, but I also could be paranoid and he’s just being weird

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u/Cool_Ship_5032 — 13 days ago

Taping all photos btw

Also I’m 5’3 and 1 year on testosterone (75mg/week). Im bad at being able to tell how my body properly looks, to me it reads female but idk if that’s js dysphoria. I was also wondering if I should keep the glasses or get contacts, depending on what works better

u/Cool_Ship_5032 — 13 days ago