u/ContributionFirst454

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Last year, I made a pivot to a different sector (geopolitical intelligence and risk analysis) and currently performing really well. I even got a promotion immediately after my 6 month probation got over. It is remote work, 5 days a week. The thing is I was planning to pursue a PhD originally, and just happened to find this job. But now I have started liking it, it stimulates me intellectually and aligns with my general interest in geopolitics. It is definitely hectic sometimes, but nothing exceptionally toxic. Now I am confused about whether to take steps towards a PhD, as that would definitely require me to leave this job if I do get admission. What should I do?

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Last year, I made a pivot to a different sector (geopolitical intelligence and risk analysis) and currently performing really well. I even got a promotion immediately after my 6 month probation got over. It is remote work, 5 days a week. The thing is I was planning to pursue a PhD originally, and just happened to find this job. But now I have started liking it, it stimulates me intellectually and aligns with my general interest in geopolitics. It is definitely hectic sometimes, but nothing exceptionally toxic. Now I am confused about whether to take steps towards a PhD, as that would definitely require me to leave this job if I do get admission. What should I do?

Last year, I made a pivot to a different sector (geopolitical intelligence and risk analysis) and currently performing really well. I even got a promotion immediately after my 6 month probation got over. It is remote work, 5 days a week. The thing is I was planning to pursue a PhD originally, and just happened to find this job. But now I have started liking it, it stimulates me intellectually and aligns with my general interest in geopolitics. It is definitely hectic sometimes, but nothing exceptionally toxic. Now I am confused about whether to take steps towards a PhD, as that would definitely require me to leave this job if I do get admission. What should I do?

Yeah, thats the situation I am feeling bad about. I haven't spoken to my bf about it, i dont know whether he knows this or not. But I randomly (dont ask how) came across the phd thesis of my bf's ex and saw my bf's name in her acknowledgement chapter. She submitted her thesis way after their breakup, when my and bf had already started dating. I am feeling terrible i dont know why. Its like his name in her thesis is just recorded permanently, forever. I am wondering how my bf will feel if he comes to know, probably something like 'oh how sweet of her...' and even that thought is making my heart break. I have a history with that particular ex and wanted to cut her out in every way possible. But this situation is breaking my heart. Just wanted to share.