u/Content_Dress1046

So my (21F) best friend (22F) has been giving me the silent treatment for the past 4 days because of a mistake I made. So last Saturday, I told my friend that I needed help taking my electric bike to the bike shop. She told me she was able to help me on a certain day but I have no memory of what day she said and I have no memory of me confirming anything. Tuesday morning, I wake up and I see a message from my friend saying that she is leaving her house soon. I was confused because I didn’t think we had any plans that day. I assumed that she was joking with me because I joked with her like that before. 30 minutes later, she texts me and says that she’s on her way. I send her a message asking her what’s going on because I was starting to worry that she actually wasn’t joking.

A couple minutes later she messages me and says that she’s coming to help me with the bike. I immediately call her and she told me that on Saturday I said that I was going to take my bike to the shop on Tuesday. I apologize and told her that I forgotten about that and I genuinely have no memory of saying I was going on Tuesday. She asked me if she should turn around and go home and I said yes and I was about to explain why I wasn’t able to take the bike to the shop that day but she hung up the phone before I could explain. I sent her a message saying I’m sorry and I sent her a voice message apologizing and explaining that I made a mistake. She saw the messages but didn’t respond.

She’s been giving me the silent treatment ever since and I feel like she’s being too harsh on me because this was a genuine mistake and I never made a mistake like that before. I understand being mad at me for a couple hours or a day at most because she was probably almost at my house when she had to turn around and go home but I feel like giving me the silent treatment over this mistake for multiple days is doing too much and I would like for us to have a conversation about this like adults and move on. Am I wrong for thinking that she is being too harsh?

This probably sounds dumb but earlier I was outside cleaning my mop bucket and it was raining and a little bit of water from the roof splashed on my face and it got near my lip. A couple minutes after that happened I thought to myself, “what if a bird or bat with rabies landed on the roof and their germs got on there and the water that splashed on me made the germs get on me?”. So yeah now I have the fear that I contracted rabies and right now I feel like I have to go to the ER and get a shot.

So earlier I was outside cleaning my mop bucket and it was raining and a little bit of water from the roof splashed on my face and it got near my lip. A couple minutes after that happened I thought to myself, “what if a bird or bat with rabies landed on the roof and their germs got on there and the water that splashed on me made the germs get on me?”. So yeah now I have the fear that I contracted rabies and right now I feel like I have to go to the ER and get a shot. I’m scared of dying and I don’t want to die from rabies.