u/ConsiderationTop4851

$40 NC—PayPal, Chime, or Varo
Will repay $50 on Wednesday 5/13
Need gas and lunch for Monday and Tuesday til I get paid on Wednesday

Want to find a song that expresses the sentiment:

Homesick for a place that doesn’t miss me

I like all genres of music. My favorites are
Country, Indie Folk, Indie Blues, modern country

I’m in am emotional headspace needing music to speak for me

As much as I’d like to post the whole story, I just can’t right now. It’s emotionally exhausting and I’m barely holding on.

My 27 year old daughter is in a DV relationship. She has cut off all of her family and childhood friends and moved two hours away.

I’ve been to the city they’ve moved to and the address I’d found for her was not correct. The local police helped me check several other addresses in the apartment community but no one answered the door.

I’m going to make another trip this week to check the other addresses that are listed to the boyfriend. I’m going in the early part of the day so he will likely be at work and I might get the chance to see her face.

If you had just a few moments with someone you love who’s in her situation what would you say? I know if I get the chance to say anything at all I want to say the most important things first, “I love you so much.” I feel like I need to have something memorized in case I go blank in the moment. What can I possibly say to let her know that I know she’s being controlled and abused, that I’m not here to interfere, just to make sure she’s alive. I want her to know that she can call anytime and I won’t judge but I think if I were to say those exact words she might walk away. She has done everything to hide the fact that she’s being abused so I don’t want to confront it directly until she’s ready.