I need help. I “15 AFAB” have been friends with a group of people for 3 years and recently I started trying to act like everyone else, I was making comments towards the group and then I found out the one of them Kelly, does like me, so I stopped with her and I was still making comments Adrian and Kyler, them out of the blue Kyler started giving me the cold shoulder, so I stopped ms jokes with him and continued with Adrian, however the problem is I started liking him because he wasn’t excluding me like everyone else and was treating me like a person. And I started acting “weird“ towards him and it went on for a while and I am just know being told that I was being weird when I wasn’t trying to, I struggle with social cues and when to stop, and I didn’t believe that I was treating Adrian any differently then anyone else. Now everyone is mad at me and I don’t know what to do or how to navigate the situation, I have apologized and said that it would stop. Even after apologizing they don’t believe I was being sincere and they don’t trust me and I’m working they are going to spread rumors at my school for being a “creep” when I didn’t even realize I was being weird.
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I need help. I “15 AFAB” have been friends with a group of people for 3 years and recently I started trying to act like everyone else, I was making comments towards the group and then I found out the one of them Kelly, does like me, so I stopped with her and I was still making comments Adrian and Kyler, them out of the blue Kyler started giving me the cold shoulder, so I stopped ms jokes with him and continued with Adrian, however the problem is I started liking him because he wasn’t excluding me like everyone else and was treating me like a person. And I started acting “weird“ towards him and it went on for a while and I am just know being told that I was being weird when I wasn’t trying to, I struggle with social cues and when to stop, and I didn’t believe that I was treating Adrian any differently then anyone else. Now everyone is mad at me and I don’t know what to do or how to navigate the situation, I have apologized and said that it would stop, I am worried that I messed everything up.
I need help. I have been friends with a group of people for 3 years and recently I started trying to act like everyone else, I was making comments towards the group and then I found out the one of them Kelly, does like me, so I stopped with her and I was still making comments Adrian and Kyler, them out of the blue Kyler started giving me the cold shoulder, so I stopped ms jokes with him and continued with Adrian, however the problem is I started liking him because he wasn’t excluding me like everyone else and was treating me like a person. And I started acting “weird“ towards him and it went on for a while and I am just know being told that I was being weird when I wasn’t trying to, I struggle with social cues and when to stop, and I didn’t believe that I was treating Adrian any differently then anyone else. Now everyone is mad at me and I don’t know what to do or how to navigate the situation, I have apologized and said that it would stop, I am worried that I messed everything up.