A couple days ago me and my gf got into an argument, this turned into her breaking up with me. She said the reason why she broke up with me was because I get upset over the littlest things. But honestly I think some of the stuff she does is disrespectful without her realizing it and then I react to it and that stresses her out I guess. After hearing all this my hearts been shattered and I can barely sleep or be social. She’s pretty avoidant but the next day we were discussing plans to exchange our stuff and she said she can’t see me in person because it would hurt too much and she could change her mind. For context we’re also two weeks away from summer break and we met at college. Anyways after planning to drop each other’s stuff off, she said that she’s confused with herself and doesn’t know why she ended things. We talked a bit on the phone and I told her that I’ll respect her space but now I’m in an awkward position where I’m waiting for her to reach out and I don’t want to wait around. She also will casually Snapchat me like nothings happened, but I realized it’s best if I stop responding to them. I really love this girl and I don’t want to lose our 8 month relationship, because she’s like my best friend. Im just hurting really bad. What’s the best course of action?
u/Comprehensive-Load10
I’m a college freshman about to finish up the year and I’ve been dating this girl for about 8 months and things have been good recently but it all crumbled apart today. She said I overreact when I tell her I’m upset at something disrespectful she did. I hang out with her everyday and she’s like my best friend. It breaks my heart so bad that she wants to be done. She says she loves me and gives me kisses but breaks up with me. All of my emotions were dependent on her, I would go to her to talk about all my problems. She said we need to take a break which is even more confusing. And then she said we can try again after summer and so I’m confused what she actually wants. I’m unhealthy dependent on her and it sucks. She is genuinely apart of my routine everyday and I saw a beautiful future for us. This completely wrecked me and I don’t know if I’ve ever felt this heartbroken before. I have no one to go to. I feel so isolated and alone. Having depression, anxiety, and ADHD sucks so bad. I feel so lost and overwhelmed with emotions. Any tips or thoughts?