u/Complete_Tea_5000

so me and my boyfriend broke up a little bit more than a week ago and we were together for 2 years and during the first three days I was absolutely miserable and devastated crying all day thinking it’s the end of the world. On Friday I was getting ready for the club and I was dancing in the mirror and felt so good there was not any sadness in me , so what happened , we actually we saw each other at the club but like another guy was talking to me asking for my number and i was telling him that I’m not looking for anything and my ex saw me talking to him and made a big ass drama out of this shit. now it’s been a week and this past week I have not once cried or felt really sad about my ex the only thing that I have going on is tiny little waves of nostalgia that quickly pass for example 10 minutes. Aside from that, I feel extremely happy with myself. I’m thinking how did that happen so quickly like has not hit me yet?

Its ruining our relationship. He is a very patient guy and respectful to me but he likes to joke around meanwhile i take everything, EVERYTHING as disrespect. he really makes soft jokes if he even makes ine but they still trigger me sm. for example before he got his car i said “woo i now will have free transportation” and he said “only if you pay the gas, haha” and stuff like that genuinely triggers something in me. I dont jnow what to do and how to get over this because he told me he doesnt feel me like a friend and thinks its important that you’re friends before you’re partners.