Maybe a bridesmaid ??
Few years ago , I joined a new friend group due to moving to a new city. A friend aka the bride ( we got connected through mutual friend ) introduced me to entire group and we instantly clicked. I am single so I have been spending less time with them , as a lot of activities now are focused on things that couples do, however I still see entire group about 1x month or every other month and the bride about 2-3 times a month.
Few month ago, bride casually mentioned that I will be one of the bridesmaids and that we will all stay together during the wedding at big house to get ready etc. I of course got very excited. Fast forward to now - I haven’t heard anything yet - wedding is in early January.
I don’t want to ask the bride or anyone else in the friend group because I don’t want to cause the drama and technically it’s possible that she asked other girls to be bridesmaids and not me. Since I’ve met them through her , I didn’t develop a strong enough friendship with anyone to ask them without it getting to the bride. I had dinner with one of them ( not a bride ) and she causally asked where I was staying to which I said that I didn’t know yet. I am not sure if she was trying to gauge the situation and also wasn’t asked to be a bridesmaid or see what I say.
I totally would’ve been fine with not being a bridesmaid and save energy and money, if she didn’t mention it to me, now it just feels odd.
Any advice is appreciated!