This is for the current MBA folks out there. I never had a habit of consistently reading news. I hav been trying to build that habit but there's always so much going around and it easily gets overwhelming. I get drowned in political news and can barely keep tabs of any recent business related news and such.
I will be starting my MBA this year so want some guidance from you guys.
The above are talking about homosexual relationships though their ethnicity is unknown to me.
Many times I have expressed my dislike for casuals and my dream of growing old with my lover.
I have been called delusional, naive and stupid for those things endless time in this sub as well as in the other wlw sub.
Question: Is hoping for a long term relationship delusional while being in this country? Do all homosexual relationship come with narrow deadlines in India?
Like I get past the Hi hello phase but then I don't have anything to talk about. If the other person does not initiate conversation, I end up forgetting about them altogether.
What do you guys do to continue conversation?
I have a straight friend who has been dating the same guy since school, its been 12 years. They grew up together, they are so similar they talk same, walk same, they cannot be separated. They respect each other and cannot even think of loving anybody else as they are both from small towns where we didn't have to swipe in order to find love. They will get married soon, have kids, and they know they will stay in love because they don't know how to live without loving each other. If there is anything which has been stagnant, constant and stable in their lives it is their love and each other ans yes this is how it is supposed to be. Your life, career everything is supposed to change except for your loved ones.
I have another friend who met her boyfriend 5 years ago and they have been together in this beautiful manner, it drags me close to tears when they describe their future dreams, so freely they dream of a house, a family, a future certainly wirh each other.
I hate being queer. I am sorry I don't hate the community but I want that shit. I want to fall in love and dare to hope for a future. That if not marriage (the constitutional shit) I want to at least dream of growing old with mt lover without a bunch of losers in the community reminding me how delusional I am, how I should be all time prepared for a heartbreak.
Why does our love have to come with a deadline? Yes we are worse off than straight people. Get out of those tier 1 cities and look into the smaller towns, in the villages and even in cities mayne once in a while try to look at the happy people. The people who have sacrificed a lot for their family and each other and got 0 regrets. Yes there are not many, but there are some out there.
Straight people have the privilege to dream of this outcome. We don't. Our love is a wastage, a temporary affair, a time pass. We are meant to either spend out early 20s in hopeless single hood or in multiple flings, situationships and after 25 we are supposed to be emotionally too tired and go into that "we don't need love" phase where we simply give up.
Saphhic love especially is doomed in this country and guess what, none of you can prove me wrong.
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Like, It is true there is a problem of catfishes and rude women here and there.
But this sub was made only a few months ago and its nice how lively it has become. At first I thought this sub would fail honestly just like most other wlw indian subs but nah, so far its going good.
A big thanks to our mod u/Acceptable-Melon
And u/Ok-Historian-5252 for creating this sub.
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