AITA for wanting to cut a guy off for possible poor oral hygiene habits?
I met a guy online, we haven’t met in person yet.. but we’ve been talking daily. We video call all the time and I pay a lot of attention to teeth because a nice smile is important to me. He had a decent small so I looked past it.. however the more we talked and the more I saw him laugh, I noticed he is missing a tooth in the front but you only can see it when he laughs widely. I was a little turned off but I felt childish so I’m like as long as we are still vibing, I’m not going to cut him off for that. Fast forward, we were talking the other and he told me that he wasn’t having a good day because his teeth were hurting. I asked if it was wisdom tooth pain because that is the only thing I could think of. He told me no that it was cavities… and I just feel like we are too grown to be having poor oral hygiene. I know everyone isn’t perfect but we only get one set of teeth and we are supposed to take care of them. I am so big on oral hygiene, I’ve had my share of dealing with men with horrible breath and trying to look past it.. but I am past that stage of life. And while we haven’t met in person yet, I can’t help but think that his breath is terrible. Am I crazy?? I feel so bad but like I just don’t know if I feel the same. He said cavities PLURAL not cavity.. so I’m just concerned and turned off.. should I wait until we meet in person and go from there? We live far apart so if I see him it would be an entire weekend kind of thing. Idk man loll am I being ridiculous?