HELP A VIRGIN PLEASE
I am 20 F and I have been in a relationship with my boyfriend for almost 10 months. He knows I'm a virgin and in all this time, we have tried to have intimacy multiple times but we always stop because it really hurts me a lot when it's about to (you know) enter/go inside. But it's not a soft pain like some girls may describe. I really feel like I'm being broken or some shit like that, it really hurts so much that I always have to stop it. He is really patient and lovely but it makes me really sad that we can't get to that level of intimacy that we both want and need. We have tried EVERYTHING to make it easier and painless for me but nothing works.
Any suggestions that would really help me please?? I'm almost desesperate. To be honest I have never used my fingers with myself because every time I have tried it also hurts, so it makes me scared. We have also used lube and done a lot of foreplay. I was thinking about going to therapy because something the problem is deeper than I think? HELP