u/Coitusfreak

Should I date a single mom as a virgin?

There's this new 24f single mom at my job, I'm a 30M virgin guy who's never had a girlfriend. At first, she gave me looks and smiled at me, I had no interest in dating at that time so she stopped that after a while and thinks we're pretty professional. A few weeks ago, because of work we've had a few conversations that I really enjoyed and I think she did too, I felt like I could talk to her for hours...

Since then I haven't stopped thinking about her, and she has been giving me these looks again.

Problem is that I'm 100% no the guy she wants or needs. I know she have said to people she wants to marry a rich guy, and I know her ex-husband who is very handsome, fit and masculine. I'm in the total opposite: skinny, mid and not as manly as I'd want to, also poor. So I'm really confused right now. Should I ignore her so things can go back the way they were before or should I continue flirting with her? What does she wants from me?

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u/Coitusfreak — 4 days ago

I'm a virgin, she's a single mom. What do I do?

There's this new 24f single mom at my job, I'm a 30M virgin guy who's never had a girlfriend. At first, she gave me looks and smiled at me, I had no interest in dating at that time so she stopped that after a while and things were pretty professional. A few weeks ago, because of work we've had a few conversations that I really enjoyed and I think she did too, I felt like I could talk to her for hours...

Since then I haven't stopped thinking about her, and she has been giving me these looks again.

Problem is that I'm 100% no the guy she wants or needs. I know she have said to people she wants to marry a rich guy, and I know her ex-husband who is very handsome, fit and masculine. I'm in the total opposite: skinny, mid and not as manly as I'd want to, also poor. So I'm really confused right now. Should I ignore her so things can go back the way they were before or should I continue flirting with her? What does she wants from me?

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u/Coitusfreak — 4 days ago