I'm 26M in my first long term relationship. My gf and I have been really frustrated because I can only have sex once or at the most twice a night, she has a really high sex drive and I'm really horny for her too it's just that once I ejaculate it gets difficult for me to get hard again in the same night, I then give her oral sex use my fingers to make her orgasm as many times as she wants but it takes 4 - 6 hours for me to have PIV sex. I've recently started going to the gym to improve my fitness, gave up smoking, used to watch porn a lot but will go cold turkey on that too, I used to have a death grip masturbation habit but have recently stopped masturbation altogether, my gf says I should go and see a doctor about this. Please advise me on what to do as I hear stories of ppl my age having no problem going 4 times a night so I'm really worried something might be wrong with me.
u/CodyBancs
I'm 26M in my first long term relationship. My gf and I have been really frustrated because I can only have sex once or at the most twice a night, she has a really high sex drive and I'm really horny for her too it's just that once I ejaculate it gets difficult for me to get hard again in the same night, I then give her oral sex use my fingers to make her orgasm as many times as she wants but it takes 4 - 6 hours for me to have PIV sex. I've recently started going to the gym to improve my fitness, gave up smoking, used to watch porn a lot but will go cold turkey on that too, I used to have a death grip masturbation habit but have recently stopped masturbation altogether, my gf says I should go and see a doctor about this. Please advise me on what to do as I hear stories of ppl my age having no problem going 4 times a night so I'm really worried something might be wrong with me.