u/CoastCheap8709

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Does anyone else live in a house where mistakes are treated like crimes?

My father has some health issues, so he keeps a small bucket nearby to spit into. It’s disgusting, but that’s not really the point of this post.

Today I was helping move furniture around the house, and accidentally knocked the bucket over.

I immediately cleaned everything myself, but my mother got extremely angry and started accusing me nonstop.

And i am not joking this was the first mistake I ever made in house in past 1 year. For the past year I’ve helped with so many things around the house without causing problems.

But the moment one accident happens, it suddenly feels like all of that means nothing.

I honestly hate living in an environment where mistakes aren’t allowed and one small accident turns into a huge emotional situation.

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u/CoastCheap8709 — 7 hours ago

I’m starting a simple 30-day challenge where I’ll stick to 1–2 affirmations and stay consistent with them every day.

I will also post it here too.

Since I’m planning to track my progress, I thought it would be more powerful (and easier to stay consistent) if I do this with someone.

So if anyone wants to join:

You pick 1–2 affirmations

Stay consistent for 30 days

We check in, share progress, and keep each other accountable

If you’re interested, feel free to DM me or comment here and we can do this together.

Let’s actually commit and see real results.

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u/CoastCheap8709 — 12 days ago

I’m starting a simple 30-day challenge where I’ll stick to 1–2 affirmations and stay consistent with them every day.

I will also post it here too.

Since I’m planning to track my progress, I thought it would be more powerful (and easier to stay consistent) if I do this with someone.

So if anyone wants to join:

You pick 1–2 affirmations

Stay consistent for 30 days

We check in, share progress, and keep each other accountable

If you’re interested, feel free to DM me or comment here and we can do this together.

Let’s actually commit and see real results.

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u/CoastCheap8709 — 12 days ago

So there is some of ai out there who speak like Neville and pictures it.

So thought I had enough

And wanted to read Neville but I have no idea where to start.

Anyone can help ?

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u/CoastCheap8709 — 13 days ago

There’s someone in my life I really want to understand a certain situation from mine.

I’ve tried explaining it directly, calmly, and more than once but it just doesn’t seem to land.

So that's why I want to manifest that they understand this situation of mine but I have no idea how can I do this can anyone help me ?

_______________________________________________

(You can ignore this if you want)

About them :

They’re very stubborn and tend to see everything only from their own point of view. In the past, they haven’t really tried to understand me either, which makes this even more frustrating.

_______________________________________________

I’d really appreciate any advice.

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u/CoastCheap8709 — 16 days ago

There’s someone in my life I really want to understand a certain situation from mine.

I’ve tried explaining it directly, calmly, and more than once but it just doesn’t seem to land.

So that's why I want to manifest that they understand this situation of mine but I have no idea how can I do this can anyone help me ?

_______________________________________________

(You can ignore this if you want)

About them :

They’re very stubborn and tend to see everything only from their own point of view. In the past, they haven’t really tried to understand me either, which makes this even more frustrating.

_______________________________________________

I’d really appreciate any advice.

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u/CoastCheap8709 — 16 days ago

There’s someone in my life I really want to understand a certain situation from mine.

I’ve tried explaining it directly, calmly, and more than once but it just doesn’t seem to land.

So that's why I want to manifest that they understand this situation of mine but I have no idea how can I do this can anyone help me ?

_______________________________________________

(You can ignore this if you want)

About them :

They’re very stubborn and tend to see everything only from their own point of view. In the past, they haven’t really tried to understand me either, which makes this even more frustrating.

_______________________________________________

I’d really appreciate any advice.

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u/CoastCheap8709 — 16 days ago

I know having negative thoughts is normal, and I’m not trying to force toxic positivity.

But lately my inner voice has been on another level.

It’s not just “negative” it feels like constant self-criticism and mental harassment.

Sometimes it even twists things I care about and turns them into something painful.

Plus getting into manifestation i always stay careful with my thoughts and how i feel.

There are moments where it genuinely affects my mood and how I see myself.

I don’t want to keep living like this.

For people who’ve dealt with this:

What actually helped you reduce or manage that inner voice?

Even small habits or mindset shifts would help.

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u/CoastCheap8709 — 17 days ago

I know having negative thoughts is normal, and I’m not trying to force toxic positivity.

But lately my inner voice has been on another level.

It’s not just “negative” it feels like constant self-criticism and mental harassment.

Sometimes it even twists things I care about and turns them into something painful.

Plus getting into manifestation i always stay careful with my thoughts and how i feel.

There are moments where it genuinely affects my mood and how I see myself.

I don’t want to keep living like this.

For people who’ve dealt with this:

What actually helped you reduce or manage that inner voice?

Even small habits or mindset shifts would help.

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u/CoastCheap8709 — 17 days ago

I know having negative thoughts is normal, and I’m not trying to force toxic positivity.

But lately my inner voice has been on another level.

It’s not just “negative” it feels like constant self-criticism and mental harassment.

Sometimes it even twists things I care about and turns them into something painful.

Plus getting into manifestation i always stay careful with my thoughts and how i feel.

There are moments where it genuinely affects my mood and how I see myself.

I don’t want to keep living like this.

For people who’ve dealt with this:

What actually helped you reduce or manage that inner voice?

Even small habits or mindset shifts would help.

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u/CoastCheap8709 — 17 days ago