u/Classic_Source_2021

▲ 2 r/self

Intermittent insomnia

It takes ages to sleep, and then waking up at the same times. Really exhausted and then can wake up mid nightmare.

Propranolol doesn't really do much. I haven't had many fears in adult life but granted these past few months, the grief of different things and loss has really sent my mind dizzying.

I lose myself in routine in the day but feelings come out at night.

I'm scared to hurt and feel, so it's been easier to build up walls around me. I miss feeling safe, the feeling of being wrapped up and feeling so secure and making someone proud. Feels like a lifetime ago, of feeling normal or sleeping well.

Emotionally in a coma.

Time passes.

Externally succeeding and disciplined

Internally mainly numb - or fear when I wake up at night.

Not necessarily looking for response, just words on a screen late at night.

I feel so proud of progress made with routine, keeping up socialising and doing well at work. I just feel so out of reach, like an astronaut drifting in a space movie. I yearn familiarity and safety, I'm completely closed off deeply from most, I can't make myself available. Novelty or new feels an impossibility now, and I think probably ever.

Long reset needed.

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u/Classic_Source_2021 — 4 days ago

Trying to find some confidence again and re enter the dating scene. I've been asked in a first date this bank holiday weekend to bowl and play mini golf. The weather may be hot or humid but rainy, what makes a good top/bottoms convo that isn't too sticky or short?

F20s

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u/Classic_Source_2021 — 17 days ago