u/Classic_Bowl_1889

Hi. I recently broke up with my First boyfriend. I am facing a heartbreak for the first time. We were together for nearly 6 years and I didn't love other guys for a long duration of 6 years.

Now I do not know when or how do I put myself out there. Frankly it feels like I am holding myself back to protect the remaining memories of my 1st relationship(maybe??)

I do miss the feeling of being someone's no.1, of roasting and loving a partner. I do not like dating apps, there are just too many people there. I do not know how to get out of this zone and I do not wanna be sad anymore.

Hi,

My long term bf and I broke up our relationship (due to religious differences) and while he has moved on and was already talking to someone (his now gf) before we ended, I find it tough to let go. This is due to the betrayal, how can my most trusted and favourite person do this to me? Its the anger or just the disbelief

• Started talking to someone else 2-3 months before breaking up with you
• broke up with me once things were confirmed with her
• Told me she was pretty and he never thought she'd swipe right on him
• Commented on my acne scars by saying "what is this circle circle" while saying "I don't want to make you insecure"
• Told me "she won't have your eyes, your nose, your smile" then moved on instantly
• Asked "can we go back if this (new relationship) doesn't work out"
• Told me he had feelings for me in March while committed to her
• When i was heartbroken and venting to him about our breakup and that I never thought he would do this, he adviced me that I should find someone to tell my day-to-day to, in my mind I was like That was you for me! I told you my day to day

Its not getting over the feelings that I need help with. Its the betrayal, its the rude treatment from someone who was Very sweet to me.
Sometimes i just feel that won't karma ever get back to him?