I (22F) think I should ghost my long distance bf (33M)
During a FaceTime he was screen sharing and I saw the tinder app. This is cheating to me because he’s essentially searching for a relationship. I don’t know if he contacted anyone through that app, but it’s hurtful enough.
This is the second time he’s done this, once before 2 years ago. I forgave him, which is probably a mistake on my part because now more feelings have been involved. He told me the first time he just wanted attention and nothing came from it.
I think I don’t want to be in this relationship anymore. He doesn’t that I know. If I confront him there will be this back and fourth stuff that I just can’t handle anymore.
It hurts because I was one semester from graduating, and we were going to plan our life together from then on.
If I ghost him, he doesn’t have contact with my friends or family and I’m not really active on any of my socials as well. He could think I randomly died or just left without closure. So in a way I feel bad for not giving him that reassurancebut also I genuinely do not want to ever speak to him again. Is this okay?
TL;DR: I caught my long distance bf cheating on me, I’m thinking of ghosting him but I feel conflicted on doing so.