u/Cktmoth

i have a previous post on here about her not respecting my boundaries and egging on my ED and ever since ive became resentful of her for that and ive been getting irritated with every little thing she does.

i got her into skz recently and shes became obsessed with one of the members to the point its creepy and stalker like. shes learning korean for him, moving to korea for him, doing dance to audition for his company and is even trying to date my brother because he has the same name and is also korean.

theres constant sexual jokes about celebraties which make me extremely uncomfy, constantly making fun of my sexuality and is asking innapropriate question about mine and my gfs sex life and over all is making my gf hate her because of this.

however, the reason i havent ended this friendship is because she always says im the only person she has and how i "saved her" so the thought of leaving and then something happening always weighs on me and i cant bare to have that on my shoulders for the rest of my life.

any advice what i should do? or how to tell her i cant continue the friendship?

exhaustingfriend

my bsf has been close with me for abt a year now but recently shes had a lot of suicidal thoughts and and ED. for some background i have a lot of past trauma with a childhood friend being succesful in his attempt and from then on ive been very clear on my boundaries about mentioning such topics even in a joking tone. however, she keeps bringing it up and using me as a therapist about it. im also in treatment for an ED and her bringing up how little shes eating and how much weight shes losing is very triggering for me and my progress. i have had conversations with her about this but it just gets brushed off and its honestly draining the life out of me and im not sure i can be her friend for the safety of my own mh. has anyone gone through this and has any advice?

hi, im 17 and have got regular period since the age of 11 however i developed medical conditions as of 2 years ago and it has been fine until last week when i got my period after 2 months of not having it. im usually medium flow for 5 days however, it started last tuesday very light and brown and hasnt stopped yet and actually looks the exact same and it's nearly been 2 weeks now. has anyone else experienced this or is it a doctors visit issue?