u/CivilNet5203

My in laws are of sound mind yet purposely overspend then ask my husband for money. We are talking into the hundreds of thousands of dollars. Their goal is to put themselves into the position of being destitute so my husband and I are forced to move them in with us. My husband and I discussed moving parents in with us prior to marriage. We agreed that we would never have parents living with us. I absolutely do not want to live with my MIL. My husband keeps saying “never say never. Lets just wait and see what life brings us.” I don’t want to wait. I stress every single day about the future. I deserve a partner that wants the same as me. I’m also afraid that he is going to try to force me to live with this witch. Any thoughts or suggestions?

My in laws are of sound mind yet purposely overspend then ask my husband for money. We are talking into the hundreds of thousands of dollars. Their goal is to put themselves into the position of being destitute so my husband and I are forced to move them in with us. My husband and I discussed moving parents in with us prior to marriage. We agreed that we would never have parents living with us. I absolutely do not want to live with my IL’s. My husband keeps saying “never say never. Lets just wait and see what life brings us.” I don’t want to wait. I stress every single day about the future. I deserve a partner that wants the same as me. I’m also afraid that he is going to try to force me to live with this witch. Any thoughts or suggestions?