For context my partner (F 20) and me (F 19) have been together for about 8 months and we have a really good relationship, but we’re trying to better understand of our bedroom life. I’m not sure how detailed Reddit will let me be so sorry if it’s a little wordy and beating around the bush.
when we get intimate things go as usual, we start kissing one thing leads to another and we both have a good time but she can never finish. She says it’s like she can’t feel anything down/feels numb. Same thing with her nipples. Like the feels the pressure but nothing electric that comes with it. With other arousing spots (places like her neck, back, an inner thighs) most of the time there ticklish but there’s a small part that does send little electric waves up her spine. She says because of she thinks she might be Asexual but is numbed out because she wants to experience an orgasm/release.
The weird part is that she does initiate sex most of the time and does get wet. I mean like there are times she’s dripping and there’s also a few couple times we’ll try something new and I can feel her insides throbbing. However she says she still says she doesn’t feel close to orgasm or much sensation.
Some extra information is that she’s felt the numbness with her ex but she’s never felt super wet/throbbed in any way with him. Also something else that she’s given me permission to post on here is that at a very young age she was exposed to sex.
If anyone has any advice or stories that could help us out it would be much appreciated. We’re taking things one step at a time and are just looking for a little advice.