“Equality” ante selective ga one side customs ni target cheyadam kaadu 😍😍
Note : I am not supporting any oppression here
Prathi chinna wedding cutstom ni oppression, patriarchy ani decode chesthunaru kada
Mari groom meedha unna expectations enti ?
Financial stability mandatory
Career settled
undali Height, salary, own house, status undali Marriage tarvata primary provider role continue cheyyali
Just imagine if a guy is not earning or financially stable
Dekhanu kuda dekharu
Ivanni centuries nunchi normalize chesaru Vatini society “beautiful responsibility” antundi Kani oka custom maatram oppression aa 🤡
If every ritual must represent perfect equality, then consistency undali kada?
Point enti ante:
Traditions ni blindly defend cheyyadam wrong But blindly villainize cheyyadam kuda intellectually lazy
Inka funniest thing entante
“Women should have freedom to choose” antaru.
But if a woman voluntarily likes traditional roles, respects rituals, or wants to be a homemaker
suddenly:
conditioned
oppressed
internalized patriarchy
Ante freedom only when choices align with your politics aa? 🤣
female burden = oppression
male burden = duty
Adi equality kaadu. Adi selective activism 😭
If you want absolute equality:
split rituals equally
split financial pressure equally
split relocation equally
split societal expectations equally
split accountability equally
Final ga please stop that selective feminism 🤡