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▲ 2 r/Weightliftingquestion

Hi,i went from 55kg(first picture)to 65kg now(other two).i dont feel its really that much visible.my height is 178cm,and i train 4 times a week:pull,push,hamstrings and glutes,quadriceps, weighted abs every session.progressed in strength,i Bench 55kg ,but it doesnt seem im getting to 60kg anytime sooner or progress in anything else now and its starts to annoy me.i eat 2400 calories sometimes i go over but rarely.should i eat more?is the fat gain noticeable?i would appreciate advice.i train for 6 months now and im scared of gaining fat.

u/Chemical_Horse8192 — 7 days ago
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Me (M18) and my boyfriend (M30) have been dating for 3 years now.i met him at my lowest,we were never supposed to be in a relationship,only fwb,but we fell in love after 3-4 months of actively seeing each other. He helped me with my mental health issues,he builded me up.he helped me overcome alot of things that were happening in my life,he is the only person i make almost my whole time for to this day.I grew up alot with him,but sometimes i feel way more ahead than my peers and dont get them as much,which makes me feel bad.we have broken up 3 times,but we always got back together after a month.When we were broken up i tried dating girls my age,but they always wanted only attention from me and sex,people always lie to me just to sleep with me,like they love me etc. I dont do what they want,so they give up after a few days when they realize im not gonna do it.So i dont even think theres something better for me.
My pink glasses fell when he gave me STD when i was deep in love with him and we were happy in relationship at the time.Its been rocky between us since he just refuses to tell me the truth and im not still over it so i sometimes bring it up and we argue(he was my first partner and i was loyal so i know it wasnt my fault)anyways we are still together,but when my best friend now got into a relationship and i saw how he interacts with his girlfriend, i realized that my relationship isnt really great…im not happy being a secret,my boyfriend never told his friends,or coworkers,maximum he said that he was seeing someone,and when i met someone from his life,he said i was a cousin.no one knows about me.i feel so exhausted,im realizing that i want to be loved,publicly.holding hands and other things couples do.in public We are friends.only time i feel like im in a relationship is when we are at his apartment alone.but i dont want to leave him,hes the only person who ever showed me love and still shows even with all my problems.I just wish he would hold my hand and say that im his,maybe meet his friends as his partner.i just feel like im something to be embarrased about .makes me insecure and sad.its just tiring ,i would like some advice,what can i do at this situation? When i posted this on relationships advice,it got removed and that i was lying,which is insane.no,i understand the age gap is bad,but in my country age gap relationships are not that absurd,but yes this would be frowned upon.but i need to talk about it,i dont want to talk about it with my friends,because i dont want them to spread this.i just really dont recognize myself i think about 3 months now and im really unhappy,like i really need to talk about it in someway,which is why im writing this.i feel lost i just want some opinions and advice,so i can think about my options at this moment.

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u/Chemical_Horse8192 — 9 days ago