hello,
i have a problem. i am 25F and have 28M boyfriend. he has a past with variety of casual sex, fwb, it is his first serious relationship . we have been together for 1 year. in the present sex was great, both ways, he pleasured me ant etc. later on i always initiated sex first and he started to say that he does not want to. sex became rare and no pleasure anymore to me, because he said i take very long to come and i should rather use vibrator. now he said that he better watch porn because it is easier to finish and way faster.
Also he said, that he does not have attraction to me, maybe because of the novelty he had, he remembers those girls he had casual sex, but not our sex or me. also he confessed that there were times that he went to wc to watch porn when i was at home and did not even bother to initiate sex. i feel very shitty. he can get sexually attracted he said almost to everyone but now that we are together living he got used to me and does not feel sexual atrraction even if i look great in his eyes, he does not even look at me when i am undressed because he said he already seen everything . Have you been in situation like this and what solution it might take?