u/Character_Club_1507

Hey guys! I’m getting married in 3 weeks. We’re both taking a day off and just going to the county marriage office and getting married. Not going to host any parties, just bring as cheap as we can be.

People at work know about my relationship and also I asked around about prenups. Idk my parents and in laws don’t have one (no help from them).

Also I’m the only woman engineer in my team and we have like 3 other female operators and rest are male coworkers. I don’t want this to be something that affects my job or anything else. I know it’s illegal to discriminate against that I don’t trust the corporate system.

Anyway do I have to tell my boss and coworkers when I get married? My parents were like you should tell the coworkers.

Hello! So my hypomania is really bad now. Hella reckless and it’s getting worse. My doc switched me to lithium. They said I can stop lamictol immediately and take lithium. I haven’t picked up my meds yet. Is that something you guys have tried? I don’t want to get a seizure because I hated not being able to drive for like 4 months (and I love my car). No seizure disorder (for now)

What is your trigger that drops you into the depressive episode?

Ok my depressive cycle hits when something happens either at work (some shit my boss says), shit that’s happening in world/politics. Idk even during depressive cycle, I get happy seeing my pets but other than that barely any energy, hard to hit the gym. Skip meals and don’t feel like eating (I love food). My hypo mania looks like crazy spending, super high self esteem, loud, a lot of cleaning and cooking, a lot of workout. My sleep drops. With seroquel, I slept like 8-9 hrs but I have been sleeping like 6 hrs and have so much energy. Any I’m approaching the depressive cycle rip…

I recently got into 400mg lamicfol (from 200mg), and 50 mg seroquel. I’m thinking of making an appt with doc before the depressive cycle goes super low.