Is she really my bestfriend??? Or am I being to Possesive of her?
* TL;DR *
Riya (myself), Neha and Diya trio of friends. Neha ghosted Riya for 6-7 months. Riya thought Diya was her best friend but now reconsidering it as Diya wants to be friends with both?
*LONG STORY*
Riya(Myself), Neha and Diya are the trio of friends, I was randomly being ghosted by Neha for almost 6-7 months like wasn't picking up my calls not responding to my text messages she talked to Diya during this time and they both also used to hangout together sometimes as they live in the same city. I used to talk to Diya with on a daily basis since 5-6 months.
Neha was also a really good friend of mine we used to hangout out together, buy each other birthday gifts we never really fought or argued about anything ever throughout our friendship. But everything changed so unexpectedly.
Neha and Diya are introverts and pretty logical people, Im more of an extrovert and emotional person. They both have always told me how I'm so "emotionally overwhelming" (idk what does that mean) but it really never harmed out friendship.
(2-3 months before today) After that diya was talking with me and then she added Neha to conference call there I asked her if she wants to be friends with me??? She was hesitant and didn't say anything
(2 days before from today) Neha told Diya and told her that she stopped talking to me as I wasn't understanding, I was emotional and didn't value her, and she herself isn't telling me this because she hates confronting me and that's why ghosting me.
I'm hurt, I cried 2 days straight because of this, Diya told me that Neha is wrong in this situation, but still is good friends with her, (I thought she was my bestfriend) She said that she is friends with both and it's not that much of an issue, and she still wants me to be her bestfriend but I'm not sure about it what should I do???? Should I consider her as my bestfriend after this?