How can I win her back?
Men of reddit, I really need your help. I have a girlfriend now for 4mons. She was my crush since I saw her in college but lost her after I quit uni and continued my studies somewhere else far. She had a partner and a kid now 5y.o. male. They got separated and decided to be on co-parenting setup since January 2025.
We had really small and rare interactions ever since. And fast forward to last year December we messaged each other and decided to meet. All were great and January this year we decided to commit to a relationship.
I just need some help, she found out that I save intimate pictures of other women, click links and even make a custom thread. I swear this is my weak spot, and I want to be better for her because I really want her.
Now she’s really upset and sad and also insecure because I still do those behind her back and she feels she’s not enough for me. But she’s more than enough, I want her. I want to gain her back, earn her trust again and force myself to be better, to be strong and not give in to any intimate traps on the internet.
EDIT: I’m at her place right now, I was expecting that she’d shove me away with my things but still she let me in. What should I do or say? I already said those above but she laughs like she doesn’t trust me anymore.