Do I '19F' need to share my trauma with my boyfriend '21M' ?
I've dated my boyfriend for a year and half before breaking up 2 years ago and getting together with him 5 months ago.
Not cheating or abuse but a tough breakup. I couldn't trust him cuz of some things he did at that moment so i broke up and hesitated at times to trust him again but i don't want to tell him that he had triggered my trauma once maybe 1 or 2 months ago.
I genuinely can trust him once again and things are really good in terms of trust and i don't doubt him so he isn't actively triggering my trauma so I've forgotten about the whole thing but he doesn't want to be the reason for someone's trauma and is really not feeling good about me choosing not to share it cause I'm over it and also cause i don't want him to feel guilty or wall on eggshells.
Is it necessary to share trauma out or there are relationships where things work out without talking about it?