u/Carpe3456

I’ve been on a few dates with this trans guy, and things are moving pretty fast. I want to ask, what are some things to do / avoid in the bedroom to make the experience as enjoyable and not-dysphoric as possible? I’m sorry if this comes across as ignorant. Obviously the answer is “just ask him”, but I really have no idea what’s the norm in the community. If it makes a difference, I’m a top but not dead set on penetrative sex