u/CaptainMacAlfie

Feeling super defeated and like I'll never be able to find a doc who's actually going to take me seriously

I've had had heart and and blood pressure for basically my whole life which I just assumed was just my normal as that's what every doctor had told me but the past 6 months I've had increasing fatigue, brain fog, heart palpitations, shortness of breath, and muscle pain which is making me think there is something more going on.

On top my that one of my uncles just recently had a sudden cardiac arrest and another of my uncles collapsed and needed a pacemaker put in. My dad also has a pretty significant history of heart trouble so that has me a bit extra worried about what could be going on. I got a new primary care doctor a few months ago and initially she seemed to fully understand my worries and did a 7 day holter monitor test which showed my average HR to be 109, highest got to 179, and I had a 68% tachycardia burden but when she reviewed the results she just sent me a message through the patient portal that everything looked fine. I was on metoprolol the whole week I took the test so I really don't think those results are normal but when I told her that she just upped me dose which now has given me tons of dizziness and constantly being cold while my HR still spikes up to over 100 when I'm not doing anything.

I've given up on getting anywhere with her because of how dismissive she was and I really just don't want to have to fight to be heard so I just gave up on everything medical for awhile. My dad is pretty worried about the results though and has kept pushing me to talk to a cardiologist so after some searching I found someone local who said they didn't require a referral to see but of course when I call I get told he does require a referral and every doc in that office already has 20+ patients on the waitlist so no chance of me seeing anyone any time soon.

I live in super rural northern NY so there's very few options near me and they all either aren't taking new patients or have months to years long wait times. I literally just want to figure out what's wrong with me and to find some way to make my body not feel like it's falling apart but every time I think I get somewhere with it something always happens that stops me. I know I probably could try asking my primary care doc again for a referral but I don't even know how to start that convo and it's not going to help the crazy wait times right now. It's ridiculous it's this hard to get basic medical care for what could be a very serious heart condition but I just can't find anyone who will take me seriously and actually look into it. Instead they all just say my body must run fast and that I just need to exercise and eat better but I'm doing just about as much as my body can handle for exercise and it's not made a difference.

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u/CaptainMacAlfie — 12 hours ago

Should I get an appointment with a cardiologist?

I (F20) have had issues pretty much my whole life with tachycardia and hypertension. My heart rate is almost never under 100bpm unless I'm on meds and even then still is usually above 100. I live a pretty healthy lifestyle and try to get at least a little exercise in daily and eat a good diet as well as getting enough water. The past year I've had a pretty significant increase in symptoms like fatigue, brain fog, heart palpitations, shortness of breath, and cold hands and feet which are impacting my life and making it hard for me to keep up in college.

I took propranolol for awhile but it really didn't make much difference so my PCP put me on metoprolol which worked for a week then my HR and BP went back up to normal so she upped my dose which now keeps it closer to normal but it's made my shortness of breath much worse. I've had basic blood work, an EKG, and a 7 day holter monitor test which all came back normal other than the tachycardia so my PCP dismissed it and said I'm fine.

My family has a pretty significant history of heart issues though like I have one uncle who just suddenly passed away from cardiac arrest and another who collapsed and needed a pacemaker and my dad had a heart attack at 34 and nearly had another last year so I'm a bit on edge about my health. I don't know if maybe it's just health anxiety and I really am fine or if it's warranted to try to schedule an appointment with a cardiologist. I don't want to waste anyone's time if this isn't something serious but with my family history I'm hesitant to just ignore it.

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u/CaptainMacAlfie — 1 day ago
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More progress with Flea!

I was cleaning the platforms in their cage and saw Flea chilling with his brother at the bottom and decided to just try and pet him to see his reaction and also help desensitize him some more to hands as right now I'm just trying to touch them randomly as I'm doing stuff around them so they realize I'm not going to hurt them or always be grabbing them. He really didn't seem bothered by it as much as usual so I kept going and he seemed to be slightly leaning into the pets.

I still don't think he's fully ok with it or really loving it yet as he did give me a good bite after when I left my hand next to him for too long but he usually flinches and freaks out when my hand goes near him so it's still good progress. You can see Bubo is still very nervous of hands and moves away from any touches but he is slowly getting more used to it as well. This is after they both had a pretty big step back in progress after I moved back home a few days ago from college so that makes this moment a bit extra special as they've both been extra freaked out and shy since the move but they seem to be adjusting now and getting their confidence back.

u/CaptainMacAlfie — 1 day ago
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I've been slowly working with my two boys who are ex lab rats get over their fear of hands by lightly touching them then giving treats. One has taken to this training very well and I noticed today he really wasn't reacting all that much to me just touching him besides his usual mild annoyance at it so I decided to just go for and try to pick him up and he actually let me! He usually will scream and bite and scratch really bad and run to hide after but tonight he let me pick him up multiple times with no major fighting and he wasn't acting scared after. He really didn't like being held so I'm not forcing that on him yet as this alone is pretty major but the fact he'd come right back for treats after I set him down is something I wasn't sure would ever happen.

His brother is still terrified as ever but is making a little progress with getting used to light pets when he's cuddled up somewhere and luckily he doesn't have a biting problem so his fear isn't as big of an issue.

I know my technique for picking him up isn't great but he's massive and I have tiny hands plus I've never been able to pick him up like this before so I have no idea what I'm doing 🤣 if he stays going like this I'm sure I'll get plenty of practice in though because he loves getting treats and he knows he'll get loads of them if he suffers through a bit of handling first.

u/CaptainMacAlfie — 7 days ago
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Currently letting them free roam while I study for the class I got them from which seems fitting 🤣

u/CaptainMacAlfie — 10 days ago
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I got an IPad A16 and apple pen from the campus store at my college with the left over campus cash I had since I figured it would be nice to have a tablet style device just in general but also for taking notes during lectures and studying. I'm looking for an app or a way of having both a note taking area and to be able to see the PowerPoints for the class. I'm very new to this style of device and the sort of apps I'm looking at so I really don't know what would work best. I just need something that's pretty quick and convenient to use that can replace using paper notebooks for every class.

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u/CaptainMacAlfie — 10 days ago

I've been loving playing games on this device so far since it's the perfect size for me to be bigger and easier to see than my phone but not as bulky or inconvenient as playing on my laptop or PS5. I prefer games I can quickly pick up and play a couple minutes of then move on but are interesting enough to play for longer as well.

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u/CaptainMacAlfie — 11 days ago
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(he does have lots of comfy places to sleep but has decided faceplanting onto the bare ledge is comfier)

u/CaptainMacAlfie — 16 days ago