u/CalmlySteady

I'm a child-free man and I've realised over time that I feel most fulfilled in a relationship when I'm taking the lead and looking after my partner, using my experience and confidence to provide protection, reassurance, and guidance, helping her to feel safe and secure. It's a dynamic where we have different but complementary roles - traditional in many respects, but not all. If this sounds appealing, please read on.

About Me

I’m single with no kids (obviously), and I’ve never been married. You won't be surprised to hear that I've had relationships before, but I've also spent long periods single, partly because I’ve been focused on other things in life, and partly because I realised a long time ago that I'm much happier single than in the wrong relationship. But I still dream of meeting the right person for the long term, and over the years I've developed a much better understanding of who I am and what I'm looking for. I find dating apps awful, and so I figured Reddit was worth a shot.

I’m 6 ft (1.84 m) tall, around 170 lbs (78 kg), slim, and in good shape, with blue eyes and dark brown hair. I’d like to think that I'm intelligent, well-educated, and kind. I’m honest and genuine, and I value integrity and a sense of right and wrong. I have a good job and live alone in a house that I own, and I have a great group of friends. I think physical attraction is a factor for most people, but it's also entirely subjective, so I'm happy to swap photos fairly early on so you can judge for yourself.

Fitness is important to me and I love running and spending time outdoors walking in the hills and camping. I don’t smoke, I very rarely drink, and I'm generally in bed by 10pm. I'll happily spend weekends wandering around old castles or exploring National Trust properties. I also love quiet nights in with a book or a film, board games (including chess), and occasional trips to the theatre, live music, or comedy. I’m someone who tends to have a small number of close friends rather than being part of large groups.

As I said above, I really enjoy taking the lead in a relationship - but this is leadership as a responsibility. I tend to work well with someone who can be anxious or over-think at times, because I enjoy making decisions and guiding someone, and because I understand the importance of patience and trust. When we reach the point where you trust me to look after you and to take some of your worries off your shoulders, it can allow the hyper-vigilant part of your mind to switch off, letting you truly relax and feel safe. Being trusted by my partner to play that role in her life is enormously rewarding for me.

I'm not religious, but I don't mind if you are, as long as our values match. I don't really fit a political category, because my views vary on different topics. But if you're very extreme in any direction, we're probably not a good match.

Who I’m Looking For

I’m looking for a woman who is single, never married, and child-free. Someone who is intelligent, articulate, caring, sweet, genuine, and loving. I tend to find shyness and introversion attractive, partly because I love the sensitivity that goes with it. I'm not going to list a specific age range, because I think wherever I drew the line would be arbitrary (but adults only, obviously). What matters more than any specific age is the connection we have, our shared values and interests, and the dynamic we both want.

I want to meet someone I can talk to about everything and anything, and who dreams of looking after her partner in her own devoted way. Someone who loves books and values education and intellectual curiosity. Someone who feels completely unsuited to modern swipe culture and the disposable attitude to dating. Perhaps you dream of living in a Jane Austen novel, or you just want to meet a man with old-fashioned values, with whom you can take time to feel truly comfortable and be your whole self, without feeling pressured to rush things.

I'm looking for someone who enjoys a mix of time outdoors or with other people and quiet time at home with a book, a series, or a film. I'd like my partner to share my active lifestyle and for us both to keep ourselves in decent shape (but that doesn't mean you need to be a gym nut).

I’m looking for someone who takes dating and relationships seriously and who has never been into casual encounters. I don't mind if you’re inexperienced or if you’re not sure what you’re looking for - I'm happy to gently take the lead and guide you as we slowly get to know each other.

I’m happy to hear from people outside the UK, but it needs to be realistic for us to see each other regularly and I'm not in a position to travel much at the moment, so you’d need to be comfortable visiting me regularly and relocating here in due course.

Say Hello

I'm happy to chat with anyone who's curious - there'll never be any pressure from me. But if we want to move beyond friendship, I’ll want to exchange SFW photos, then voice/video call, and then meet - I'm not looking for an online relationship. I will never send or ask for NSFW photos. I need an emotional and intellectual connection with someone before we move beyond friendship. I really hope you're the same.

If you think we might get on, message me with your age and location :)

I've realised over time that I feel most fulfilled in a relationship when I'm taking the lead and looking after my partner, using my experience and confidence to provide protection, reassurance, and guidance, helping her to feel safe and secure. It's a dynamic where we have different but complementary roles - traditional in many respects, but not all. If this sounds appealing, please read on.

About Me

I’m single with no kids, and I’ve never been married. You won't be surprised to hear that I've had relationships before, but I've also spent long periods single, partly because I’ve been focused on other things in life, and partly because I realised a long time ago that I'm much happier single than in the wrong relationship. But I still dream of meeting the right person for the long term, and over the years I've developed a much better understanding of who I am and what I'm looking for. I find dating apps awful, and so I figured Reddit was worth a shot.

I’m 6 ft (1.84 m) tall, around 170 lbs (78 kg), slim, and in good shape, with blue eyes and dark brown hair. I’d like to think that I'm intelligent, well-educated, and kind. I’m honest and genuine, and I value integrity and a sense of right and wrong. I have a good job and live alone in a house that I own, and I have a great group of friends. I think physical attraction is a factor for most people, but it's also entirely subjective, so I'm happy to swap photos fairly early on so you can judge for yourself.

Fitness is important to me and I love running and spending time outdoors walking in the hills and camping. I don’t smoke, I very rarely drink, and I'm generally in bed by 10pm. I'll happily spend weekends wandering around old castles or exploring National Trust properties. I also love quiet nights in with a book or a film, board games (including chess), and occasional trips to the theatre, live music, or comedy. I’m someone who tends to have a small number of close friends rather than being part of large groups.

As I said above, I really enjoy taking the lead in a relationship - but this is leadership as a responsibility. I tend to work well with someone who can be anxious or over-think at times, because I enjoy making decisions and guiding someone, and because I understand the importance of patience and trust. When we reach the point where you trust me to look after you and to take some of your worries off your shoulders, it can allow the hyper-vigilant part of your mind to switch off, letting you truly relax and feel safe. Being trusted by my partner to play that role in her life is enormously rewarding for me.

I'm not religious, but I don't mind if you are, as long as our values match. I'm not looking to have children (it's a long story, which I'm happy to explain). I don't really fit a political category, because my views vary on different topics. But if you're very extreme in any direction, we're probably not a good match.

Who I’m Looking For

I’m looking for a woman who is single, never married, with no kids. Someone who is intelligent, articulate, caring, sweet, genuine, and loving. I tend to find shyness and introversion attractive, partly because I love the sensitivity that goes with it. I'm not going to list a specific age range, because I think wherever I drew the line would be arbitrary, but I think the dynamic I've described feels most natural with someone younger than me (adults only, obviously). What matters more than any specific age is the connection we have, our shared values and interests, and the dynamic we both want.

I want to meet someone I can talk to about everything and anything, and who dreams of looking after her partner in her own devoted way. Someone who loves books and values education and intellectual curiosity. Someone who feels completely unsuited to modern swipe culture and the disposable attitude to dating. Perhaps you dream of living in a Jane Austen novel, or you just want to meet a man with old-fashioned values, with whom you can take time to feel truly comfortable and be your whole self, without feeling pressured to rush things.

I'm looking for someone who enjoys a mix of time outdoors or with other people and quiet time at home with a book, a series, or a film. I'd like my partner to share my active lifestyle and for us both to keep ourselves in decent shape (but that doesn't mean you need to be a gym nut).

I’m looking for someone who takes dating and relationships seriously and who has never been into casual encounters. I don't mind if you’re inexperienced or if you’re not sure what you’re looking for - I'm happy to gently take the lead and guide you as we slowly get to know each other.

I’m happy to hear from people outside the UK, but it needs to be realistic for us to see each other regularly and I'm not in a position to travel much at the moment, so you’d need to be comfortable visiting me regularly and relocating here in due course.

Say Hello

I'm happy to chat with anyone who's curious - there'll never be any pressure from me. But if we want to move beyond friendship, I’ll want to exchange SFW photos, then voice/video call, and then meet - I'm not looking for an online relationship. I will never send or ask for NSFW photos. I need an emotional and intellectual connection with someone before we move beyond friendship. I really hope you're the same.

If you think we might get on, message me with your age and location :)

I’m a 44-year-old man living in the north of England and looking to meet an intelligent, sensitive woman for a traditional, loving and monogamous, long-term, real-world relationship. I want to find someone who dreams of meeting a man she can grow to trust to take the lead and to provide her with love, protection, guidance, and discipline.

I realise this is a very long post, but I think it's important to explain who I am and what I'm looking for.

The Relationship

I'm looking for a partner who shares my dream of a loving, long-term, traditional marriage. A relationship where I take the lead and am head of the household, taking responsibility for the big decisions, and providing protection, support, and guidance. Where I look after and protect my partner, keeping her physically and emotionally safe, while setting boundaries and expectations to keep the relationship healthy and my partner on the right path in life. It's a relationship where my guidance and discipline leave my partner feeling safe and loved, and where, in exchange for this, she devotes herself to me in her own feminine way.

I should say up front that I’m not looking to have children. (It’s not that I don’t like children - I’m happy to explain why if you’re interested, so feel free to ask.) This means that, while I expect to be the main provider in the relationship, my wife would have the option to pursue a career if she’d like to do that, perhaps working part-time. I know for a lot of people a traditional dynamic is about the wife staying at home, but for me it's primarily about the dynamic between us - and the fact that at home, I'm in charge.

About Me

I’m single with no kids, and I’ve never been married or engaged. You won't be surprised to hear that I've had several relationships before, but I've also spent long periods single, partly because I’ve been focused on other things in life, and partly because I realised a long time ago that I'm much happier single than in the wrong relationship. But I still dream of meeting the right person for the long term, and over the years I've developed a much better understanding of who I am and what I'm looking for, as well as the confidence and experience needed to lead. It's not easy finding a traditional dynamic on dating apps, so I figured Reddit was worth a shot.

I’m 6 ft (1.84 m) tall, around 170 lbs (78 kg), slim, and in good shape, with blue eyes and dark brown hair. I think physical attraction is a factor for most people, but it's also entirely subjective, so I'm happy to swap photos fairly quickly so you can judge for yourself. I'm reasonably successful and live alone in a house that I own. I have an interesting life and a great group of friends, and I’d love to meet someone to share it all with. I’d like to think that I'm intelligent, well-educated, and kind. I’m honest and genuine, and I value integrity and a sense of right and wrong. I lead by example and I set standards that I expect my partner to live up to.

Fitness is important to me and I love running and spending time outdoors walking in the hills and camping. I don’t smoke, I very rarely drink, and I'm generally in bed by 10pm. I'll happily spend weekends wandering around old castles or exploring National Trust properties. I also love quiet nights in with a book or a film, board games (including chess), and occasional trips to the theatre, live music, or comedy. I’m someone who tends to have a small number of close friends rather than being part of large groups.

Who I’m Looking For

I’m looking for a woman who’s single, never married, with no kids. Someone who is intelligent, articulate, caring, sweet, genuine, and loving. I tend to find shyness and introversion attractive, partly because I love the sensitivity that goes with it. I'm not going to set a specific age range, because I think wherever I drew the line would be arbitrary. What matters more is the connection we have, our shared values and interests, and fitting well together.

I’m happy to hear from people outside the UK, but it needs to be realistic for us to see each other regularly and you’d need to be comfortable visiting me and relocating here in due course.

I tend to work well with someone who can be anxious or over-think at times, because when you've grown to trust me to lead you and to take some of your worries off your shoulders, it can allow the hyper-vigilant part of your mind to switch off, letting you truly relax and feel safe. Being trusted by my partner to play that role in her life is enormously rewarding for me.

I want to meet someone I can talk to about everything and anything. Someone who loves books and values education and intellectual curiosity. Someone who feels completely unsuited to modern swipe culture and the disposable attitude to dating. Perhaps you dream of living in a Jane Austen novel, or you just want to meet a man with old-fashioned values, with whom you can take time to feel truly comfortable and be your whole self, without feeling pressured to rush things.

I’m looking for someone who takes dating and relationships seriously and who has never been into casual encounters. I don't mind if you’re inexperienced or if you’re not sure what you’re looking for - I'm happy to gently take the lead and guide you as we slowly get to know each other.

Say Hello

I'm happy to chat with anyone who's curious - there'll never be any pressure from me. But if we want to move beyond friendship, I’ll want to exchange SFW photos and then voice/video call, partly because physical attraction is a factor, but also because it helps to reassure us both that we're talking to real people and it's a lot easier to get to know someone that way than by text.

I will never send or ask for NSFW photos. I need an emotional and intellectual connection with someone before we move beyond friendship, and I hope you're the same.

If you think we might get on, please message me with your age and location and we’ll take it from there.

I'm a child-free man and I've realised over time that I feel most fulfilled in a relationship when I'm taking the lead and looking after my partner, using my experience and confidence to provide protection, reassurance, and guidance, helping her to feel safe and secure. It's a dynamic where we have different but complementary roles - traditional in many respects, but not all. If this sounds appealing, please read on.

About Me

I’m single with no kids (obviously), and I’ve never been married. You won't be surprised to hear that I've had relationships before, but I've also spent long periods single, partly because I’ve been focused on other things in life, and partly because I realised a long time ago that I'm much happier single than in the wrong relationship. But I still dream of meeting the right person for the long term, and over the years I've developed a much better understanding of who I am and what I'm looking for. I find dating apps awful, and so I figured Reddit was worth a shot.

I’m 6 ft (1.84 m) tall, around 170 lbs (78 kg), slim, and in good shape, with blue eyes and dark brown hair. I’d like to think that I'm intelligent, well-educated, and kind. I’m honest and genuine, and I value integrity and a sense of right and wrong. I have a good job and live alone in a house that I own, and I have a great group of friends. I think physical attraction is a factor for most people, but it's also entirely subjective, so I'm happy to swap photos fairly early on so you can judge for yourself.

Fitness is important to me and I love running and spending time outdoors walking in the hills and camping. I don’t smoke, I very rarely drink, and I'm generally in bed by 10pm. I'll happily spend weekends wandering around old castles or exploring National Trust properties. I also love quiet nights in with a book or a film, board games (including chess), and occasional trips to the theatre, live music, or comedy. I’m someone who tends to have a small number of close friends rather than being part of large groups.

As I said above, I really enjoy taking the lead in a relationship - but this is leadership as a responsibility. I tend to work well with someone who can be anxious or over-think at times, because I enjoy making decisions and guiding someone, and because I understand the importance of patience and trust. When we reach the point where you trust me to look after you and to take some of your worries off your shoulders, it can allow the hyper-vigilant part of your mind to switch off, letting you truly relax and feel safe. Being trusted by my partner to play that role in her life is enormously rewarding for me.

I'm not religious, but I don't mind if you are, as long as our values match. I don't really fit a political category, because my views vary on different topics. But if you're very extreme in any direction, we're probably not a good match.

Who I’m Looking For

I’m looking for a woman who is single, never married, and child-free. Someone who is intelligent, articulate, caring, sweet, genuine, and loving. I tend to find shyness and introversion attractive, partly because I love the sensitivity that goes with it. I'm not going to list a specific age range, because I think wherever I drew the line would be arbitrary (but adults only, obviously). What matters more than any specific age is the connection we have, our shared values and interests, and the dynamic we both want.

I want to meet someone I can talk to about everything and anything, and who dreams of looking after her partner in her own devoted way. Someone who loves books and values education and intellectual curiosity. Someone who feels completely unsuited to modern swipe culture and the disposable attitude to dating. Perhaps you dream of living in a Jane Austen novel, or you just want to meet a man with old-fashioned values, with whom you can take time to feel truly comfortable and be your whole self, without feeling pressured to rush things.

I'm looking for someone who enjoys a mix of time outdoors or with other people and quiet time at home with a book, a series, or a film. I'd like my partner to share my active lifestyle and for us both to keep ourselves in decent shape (but that doesn't mean you need to be a gym nut).

I’m looking for someone who takes dating and relationships seriously and who has never been into casual encounters. I don't mind if you’re inexperienced or if you’re not sure what you’re looking for - I'm happy to gently take the lead and guide you as we slowly get to know each other.

I’m happy to hear from people outside the UK, but it needs to be realistic for us to see each other regularly and I'm not in a position to travel much at the moment, so you’d need to be comfortable visiting me regularly and relocating here in due course.

Say Hello

I'm happy to chat with anyone who's curious - there'll never be any pressure from me. But if we want to move beyond friendship, I’ll want to exchange SFW photos, then voice/video call, and then meet - I'm not looking for an online relationship. I will never send or ask for NSFW photos. I need an emotional and intellectual connection with someone before we move beyond friendship. I really hope you're the same.

If you think we might get on, message me with your age and location :)

I've realised over time that I feel most fulfilled in a relationship when I'm taking the lead and looking after my partner, using my experience and confidence to provide protection, reassurance, and guidance, helping her to feel safe and secure. It's a dynamic where we have different but complementary roles - traditional in many respects, but not all. If this sounds appealing, please read on.

About Me

I’m single with no kids, and I’ve never been married. You won't be surprised to hear that I've had relationships before, but I've also spent long periods single, partly because I’ve been focused on other things in life, and partly because I realised a long time ago that I'm much happier single than in the wrong relationship. But I still dream of meeting the right person for the long term, and over the years I've developed a much better understanding of who I am and what I'm looking for. I find dating apps awful, and so I figured Reddit was worth a shot.

I’m 6 ft (1.84 m) tall, around 170 lbs (78 kg), slim, and in good shape, with blue eyes and dark brown hair. I’d like to think that I'm intelligent, well-educated, and kind. I’m honest and genuine, and I value integrity and a sense of right and wrong. I have a good job and live alone in a house that I own, and I have a great group of friends. I think physical attraction is a factor for most people, but it's also entirely subjective, so I'm happy to swap photos fairly early on so you can judge for yourself.

Fitness is important to me and I love running and spending time outdoors walking in the hills and camping. I don’t smoke, I very rarely drink, and I'm generally in bed by 10pm. I'll happily spend weekends wandering around old castles or exploring National Trust properties. I also love quiet nights in with a book or a film, board games (including chess), and occasional trips to the theatre, live music, or comedy. I’m someone who tends to have a small number of close friends rather than being part of large groups.

As I said above, I really enjoy taking the lead in a relationship - but this is leadership as a responsibility. I tend to work well with someone who can be anxious or over-think at times, because I enjoy making decisions and guiding someone, and because I understand that importance of patience and trust. When we reach the point where you trust me to look after you and to take some of your worries off your shoulders, it can allow the hyper-vigilant part of your mind to switch off, letting you truly relax and feel safe. Being trusted by my partner to play that role in her life is enormously rewarding for me.

I'm not religious, but I don't mind if you are, as long as our values match. I'm not looking to have children (it's a long story, which I'm happy to explain). I don't really fit a political category, because my views vary on different topics. But if you're very extreme in any direction (including supporting what Trump is currently doing), we're probably not a good match.

Who I’m Looking For

I’m looking for a woman who is single, never married, with no kids. Someone who is intelligent, articulate, caring, sweet, genuine, and loving. I tend to find shyness and introversion attractive, partly because I love the sensitivity that goes with it. I'm not going to list a specific age range, because I think wherever I drew the line would be arbitrary (but adults only, obviously). What matters more than any specific age is the connection we have, our shared values and interests, and the dynamic we both want.

I want to meet someone I can talk to about everything and anything, and who dreams of looking after her partner in her own devoted way. Someone who loves books and values education and intellectual curiosity. Someone who feels completely unsuited to modern swipe culture and the disposable attitude to dating. Perhaps you dream of living in a Jane Austen novel, or you just want to meet a man with old-fashioned values, with whom you can take time to feel truly comfortable and be your whole self, without feeling pressured to rush things.

I'm looking for someone who enjoys a mix of time outdoors or with other people and quiet time at home with a book, a series, or a film. I'd like my partner to share my active lifestyle and for us both to keep ourselves in decent shape (but that doesn't mean you need to be a gym nut).

I’m looking for someone who takes dating and relationships seriously and who has never been into casual encounters. I don't mind if you’re inexperienced or if you’re not sure what you’re looking for - I'm happy to gently take the lead and guide you as we slowly get to know each other.

I’m happy to hear from people outside the UK, but it needs to be realistic for us to see each other regularly and I'm not in a position to travel much at the moment, so you’d need to be comfortable visiting me regularly and relocating here in due course.

Say Hello

I'm happy to chat with anyone who's curious - there'll never be any pressure from me. But if we want to move beyond friendship, I’ll want to exchange SFW photos, then voice/video call, and then meet - I'm not looking for an online relationship. I will never send or ask for NSFW photos. I need an emotional and intellectual connection with someone before we move beyond friendship. I really hope you're the same.

If you think we might get on, message me with your age and location :)

I’m a 44-year-old man living in the north of England and looking to meet an intelligent, sensitive woman for a traditional, loving and monogamous, long-term, real-world relationship. I want to find someone who dreams of meeting a man she can grow to trust to take the lead and to provide her with love, protection, guidance, and discipline.

I realise this is a very long post, but I think it's important to explain who I am and what I'm looking for.

The Relationship

I'm looking for a partner who shares my dream of a loving, long-term, traditional marriage. A relationship where I take the lead and am head of the household, taking responsibility for the big decisions, and providing protection, support, and guidance. Where I look after and protect my partner, keeping her physically and emotionally safe, while setting boundaries and expectations to keep the relationship healthy and my partner on the right path in life. It's a relationship where my guidance and discipline leave my partner feeling safe and loved, and where, in exchange for this, she devotes herself to me in her own feminine way.

I should say up front that I’m not looking to have children. (It’s not that I don’t like children - I’m happy to explain why if you’re interested, so feel free to ask.) This means that, while I expect to be the main provider in the relationship, my wife would have the option to pursue a career if she’d like to do that, perhaps working part-time. I know for a lot of people a traditional dynamic is about the wife staying at home, but for me it's primarily about the dynamic between us - and the fact that at home, I'm in charge.

About Me

I’m single with no kids, and I’ve never been married or engaged. You won't be surprised to hear that I've had several relationships before, but I've also spent long periods single, partly because I’ve been focused on other things in life, and partly because I realised a long time ago that I'm much happier single than in the wrong relationship. But I still dream of meeting the right person for the long term, and over the years I've developed a much better understanding of who I am and what I'm looking for, as well as the confidence and experience needed to lead. It's not easy finding a traditional dynamic on dating apps, so I figured Reddit was worth a shot.

I’m 6 ft (1.84 m) tall, around 170 lbs (78 kg), slim, and in good shape, with blue eyes and dark brown hair. I think physical attraction is a factor for most people, but it's also entirely subjective, so I'm happy to swap photos fairly quickly so you can judge for yourself. I'm reasonably successful and live alone in a house that I own. I have an interesting life and a great group of friends, and I’d love to meet someone to share it all with. I’d like to think that I'm intelligent, well-educated, and kind. I’m honest and genuine, and I value integrity and a sense of right and wrong. I lead by example and I set standards that I expect my partner to live up to.

Fitness is important to me and I love running and spending time outdoors walking in the hills and camping. I don’t smoke, I very rarely drink, and I'm generally in bed by 10pm. I'll happily spend weekends wandering around old castles or exploring National Trust properties. I also love quiet nights in with a book or a film, board games (including chess), and occasional trips to the theatre, live music, or comedy. I’m someone who tends to have a small number of close friends rather than being part of large groups.

Who I’m Looking For

I’m looking for a woman who’s single, never married, with no kids. Someone who is intelligent, articulate, caring, sweet, genuine, and loving. I tend to find shyness and introversion attractive, partly because I love the sensitivity that goes with it. I'm not going to set a specific age range, because I think wherever I drew the line would be arbitrary. What matters more is the connection we have, our shared values and interests, and fitting well together.

I’m happy to hear from people outside the UK, but it needs to be realistic for us to see each other regularly and you’d need to be comfortable visiting me and relocating here in due course.

I tend to work well with someone who can be anxious or over-think at times, because when you've grown to trust me to lead you and to take some of your worries off your shoulders, it can allow the hyper-vigilant part of your mind to switch off, letting you truly relax and feel safe. Being trusted by my partner to play that role in her life is enormously rewarding for me.

I want to meet someone I can talk to about everything and anything. Someone who loves books and values education and intellectual curiosity. Someone who feels completely unsuited to modern swipe culture and the disposable attitude to dating. Perhaps you dream of living in a Jane Austen novel, or you just want to meet a man with old-fashioned values, with whom you can take time to feel truly comfortable and be your whole self, without feeling pressured to rush things.

I’m looking for someone who takes dating and relationships seriously and who has never been into casual encounters. I don't mind if you’re inexperienced or if you’re not sure what you’re looking for - I'm happy to gently take the lead and guide you as we slowly get to know each other.

Say Hello

I'm happy to chat with anyone who's curious - there'll never be any pressure from me. But if we want to move beyond friendship, I’ll want to exchange SFW photos and then voice/video call, partly because physical attraction is a factor, but also because it helps to reassure us both that we're talking to real people and it's a lot easier to get to know someone that way than by text.

I will never send or ask for NSFW photos. I need an emotional and intellectual connection with someone before we move beyond friendship, and I hope you're the same.

If you think we might get on, please message me with your age and location and we’ll take it from there.