u/ButterflyGloomy8575

Is this a type of sexuality?

I was wondering if there was a sexuality relating to sensory things, someone who isn't opposed to romantic/sexual encounters but cant always handle it due to a sensory issue

Example (happend to me): me and my (ex) partner were kissing but I often had to pull apart and wipe my lips becuase I found the sensation of excessive saliva discomforting, I didn't mean to make them upset or "dismiss" my love for them, I just didn't like the feeling despite being fine kissing them.

Example two (not personaly relevant): I dislike to hold hands with my partner as I dislike the feeling of their calluses/cuts/scabs.

Example 3 (not personally relevant): I dislike the feeling of my partner's stubble/facial hair and or moles/pimples/facial scars

Essentially the sexuality/identity im looking for is something where you can still be attracted to someone and in a working relationship ship, but certain things are just a sensory nono

Example (not personally relevant): I love my partner dearly, but they/he/she/etc have a shaved head/face and the sensation of the shorter hair discomforts me

Thank you in advanced (and for reference yes I am on the spectrum)

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u/ButterflyGloomy8575 — 5 days ago