u/ButterFort80085

My Wife doesn’t like sex at all

Ours is an arranged marriage. We had an instant connection. We got married within a few months of meeting each other. I genuinely love and care for her. She is progressive, career-focused, she follows mediation and is a calm gentle person. She has all the quirks that I crave for in a woman. In short, its a match made in heaven, a miracle. But....

She hates sex. She is a virgin. She did not tell me this before marriage. Its only after our marriage I observed she wasn't responding to foreplay also. When I pressed she confessed that she never liked sex and doesn't want to do it EVER ! It was a shocker for me. Its been 6 years since we got married and we still did not have foreplay also. Just casual hugs and kisses.

I did not overreact when she told me initially because its a sensitive topic and maybe she needs time. But after six year i understood she is not joking. For me, sex is not a dealbreaker. For me, it is not like "you cannot survive without sex" mindset. But I still love to get physical once a while. I never cheated on her till now and will never do that.

She is an awesome person, and I turned my life around with her. I dont want to leave her. I don't want another woman in my life. I am stuck in this loop and I don't know how to get out.

Any suggestions on how I can handle this.

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u/ButterFort80085 — 21 hours ago

Wife 36F doesnt like physical relationship with me 38M

Ours is an arranged marriage. We had an instant connection. We got married within a few months of meeting each other. I genuinely love and care for her. She is progressive, career-focused, she follows mediation and is a calm gentle person. She has all the quirks that I crave for in a woman. In short, its a match made in heaven, a miracle. But....

She hates sex. She is a virgin. She did not tell me this before marriage. Its only after our marriage I observed she wasn't responding to foreplay also. When I pressed she confessed that she never liked sex and doesn't want to do it EVER ! It was a shocker for me. Its been 6 years since we got married and we still did not have foreplay also. Just casual hugs and kisses.

I did not overreact when she told me initially because its a sensitive topic and maybe she needs time. But after six year i understood she is not joking. For me, sex is not a dealbreaker. For me, it is not like "you cannot survive without sex" mindset. But I still love to get physical once a while. I never cheated on her till now and will never do that.

She is an awesome person, and I turned my life around with her. I dont want to leave her. I don't want another woman in my life. I am stuck in this loop and I don't know how to get out.

Any suggestions on how I can handle this.

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u/ButterFort80085 — 1 day ago