u/ButIamNot

At the time I have spend here in the sub(around 3 mnths), I unfortunately came across a few accounts hidden of course or deleted (maybe I am blocked) that post extremely misogynistic and just belitting women in general are that they either “ are against a race, skin color, physics or of course money”
And themselves are not worthy to date in terms of love, trust, decency..
to eliminate the hate I am not white and not after your gold.

I just wanted to give other women a heads up to be careful with people who message you.

Not every lonely or frustrated man is an incel sure, but some of these accounts openly normalize hatred toward women, manipulation, and dehumanizing attitudes.
I’m not trying to start a witch hunt or publicly expose anyone just keep the gals here updated hoping to get the same back .
If you are a women and want to know which accounts I’m referring to, feel free to DM me. Stay safe 🤍
Edit: created a sub for women feel free to join

https://www.reddit.com/r/berlinwomencommunity/s/PMOq9E0HoT
Zero tolerance for Harassment, misogyny, discrimination, hate speech, or creepy behavior

Firstly, I know many people unfortunately leave behind so many things very important to them , I am very sorry especially if you had to leave your pets. I was lucky enough to only go with small stuff.

why did I leave these: He was so toxic it made more sense to just leave everything behind and not see him anymore. I didn’t feel safe around him.

For me,
My Turkish coffee machine( they are sooo expensive in Germany)
My mustard pillow case&pillow (I lended him a pillow don’t care about the pillow but the case was just the color I love and the fabric I love)
My iqos machine also lended - why? Because ai was thinking we were something 🫠

In total I am around 200 euros at loss at best.
Do I have regrets yeah, would I leave them anyway just nt to see him one more time, hell yeah
.

Edit:the post has been removed from askberliners because it was reported many times, I was always wondering why there wasn’t much women posting I think this is the reason. I wanted to ask a question and will ask it until this one is removed as well due to reporting. But one hint if you report all women asking questions at some point you will only get men ‘s questions answering by men. Be open to posts even if you don’t agree with.

I know there is a lot of controversy about it generally, but just to understand I am asking.
Today I was struggling with my grocery bags in ubahn and when I looked up I catched an eye on me, didn’t really think about it but then it happened a second and 3rd time.
I was really dressed up etc for work so I was confident but I can not know if a man is looking maybe they saw something weird or if they are interested so I didn’t ask anything since there is only just a few glances. But it made me think in these kind of cases what do you expect as a man to aprroach or open a conversation if you are interested? Like a smile back?(there was no smiling or anything like that from the guy)
I am asking because I stopped using dating apps for almost 2 years now and to be honest I don’t want to go back but here in general no one approaches to another, I am not afraid to do so but I also don’t want to approach someone with 0 intentions. So guide me please🙏🏻
Ps: not interested dating from here either so this is not a pick me post

Hi,
I like cleaning and I used to volunteer in my home country, going with a group cleaning the homes for people who were not able to.

Does anyone know EN speaking volunteer groups for cleaning elderly or disabled people’s homes?
I have found a few pages including vostel but they usually ask for advanced German. I would appreciate if you could share if you know any EN speaking groups.
Ps: I have a full time job, I only want to do volunteer work for people who need it.

I see it in every Germany subreddit now and I am sick of seeing people fall for it.

The amount of social engineering posts going on reddit towards specific shades of skin color and heritages in Germany is unbelievable.

This has been done for years to divide people, increase racism and even start a civil war and still being done in so many countries.

You hire some “trolls” make them post controversial things, feed them with more troll comments and let it grow.

Dividing people according to their country of origins, to their skin colors etc will only feed racists.

No country can afford fully, originally, heritically born citizens. It is unavoidable for any country anymore because immigration is everywhere, including Germany.

If you want to get pension when you get retired, if you want to be able to get medical care when you are sick, if you want to get your houses build you will have immigrants it does't matter if you are in US or Germany or Turkey or Sri Lanka.

BUT if you want to work and live where you immigrate, yes you will need to learn the language and the culture this is also non negotiable.

And I am not neither German nor 2. Gen German to those who will blame me as racisst.

Hey all,

I wanted to have some reccomendations on how to keep scar tapes I am 7 MO on 360 body lift and breast aug. And 2MO arms and thighs.

When I first use them they are great very sticky but after I wash them they keep falling in clothes.

I was them in warm water without soap and without harshly rubbing( I have ruined some harsly rubbing 🤭)

Now I am trying putting some very sticky normal bands on the ends to keep them today it seems like it worked but I would appreciate if you have other recommendations or corrections if I am doing something wrong🙏🏻