We've been together for 13 years, but I found out recently that she has HSV1. I got tested, and I'm thankfully negative, but I don't know what to do. I still love her and we used to be really affectionate, but I've completely pulled away. I don't even want to be touched. I don't see a way forward together.
Did your marriage end because of a shocking revelation?
Are you generally unhappy with romantic partners, but ending the relationship feels impossible? I feel like I have no idea what's real sometimes because I'll be so certain that I want to end it, but get so sad when I start thinking about doing it. I guess it's just my way of constantly sabotaging myself.
Moosebear will be 19 in October, but she's been losing weight and hiding a lot. Well, it's because she has an overactive thyroid and her siblings probably annoyed her. She has medicine now, and hopefully we'll be together for another 20 years.