I have the biggest crush on this guy at work, and while sometimes by he things he says / do etc seem flirty, other times it’s very neutral or platonic. I find that in periods that feel neutral or platonic i feel just really upset and sad, and im also really bothered by the lack of clarity on if he even likes me. how can i not let this crush / guy effect me so much?
i have the biggest crush on this guy at work and i find myself laughing at things that aren’t even funny to the point that he has called me out for laughing and when i laughed at something another coworker said and they were like why are u laughing the guy i like was like “don’t take it personal she does it all the time” or something like that. ugh
I have a crush on this guy i work with, and i think he may have a thing for me too. Before ppl comment about not dating at work, he is leaving the company in a few weeks, so I am less concerned about that.
While there will be a bunch of other ppl at the firm there, there are some night events like happy hours etc that are less formal. I really want to make it clear I am interested. Does anyone ahve tips other than direcrlty asking him out? I think I want to wait till after he leaves to do that if i can build up the courage.