u/Briefly_Unfilter

Btw man here... don't DM me thinking I'm a woman you'll be disappointed.

It has become so normalised to hate and rant about the opposite gender on the internet that the situation seems so hopeless. You can't just talk normally to anyone. Everyone seems in "attack mode" all the time like wtf...dude? Can you chill for a bit? Maybe drink lemonade so you feel hydrated, it's so difficult to talk to women on dating apps, social media, reddit etc. everywhere it's the same story. I suppose it's the same for women as well too many guys want to talk to them and most don't even know how to talk normally.

I just want to be able to spend time together and enjoy life with my partner on the basis of kindness, love and mutual respect. Is it too much to ask these days? 🤷🏻

I'm a man, trying to understand women better. I believe sometimes people unintentionally offend someone or make them uncomfortable especially in a country like India where boys and girls are kept separate from a very young age. Their life experience is so drastically different from the opposite gender. I'm not talking about toxic men but just the normal decent men who do or say something that makes you disinterested or uncomfortable without them realising?

Edit: Looking at downvotes on my comments, it seems like I myself don't even know what I said that makes women uncomfortable 🤷‍♂️ Btw thanks to all who commented, it was great learning experience although a bit rough but still better than knowing nothing.