u/BriefBox1104

My brother and me were discussing ese hi and he mentioned that if the girl is pretty then the guy won't care much about how much she's educated and how much she earns , a girl who looks 10/10 with no income whatsoever will always be preferred over a girl who looks 5/10 and is highly educated and is very smart , because guys earn themselves and people look for what they lack

Ofc personality matters alot , no one's talking about that here

How true is what my brother said?

And what's y'all's type? Because this will also answer my above question lol

I toh personally really want to be independent man !! idc about how much dark circles I get 🥲 unless and until I am getting da money and da grades I choose being a girl who's smart asf because I can buy good ahhh skincare and have a big glow up HAHHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA , And when we talk about girls or me personally i feel like we look more for personality and intelligence and how comfortable he makes me feel , cause I am kinda old school so idk 😓 , also intelligence and personality cause that's the sign of security cause we choose sense of security more than any bicep , tricep or 10/10 looks , and when I say sense of security I am talking about mental security cause paise vese to hum dono bana hi lenge yawrr usme kya dikkat hai 🥰💅✨✨

Cause i myself feel like looks are sooo temporary and would go in few years , it's the memories that you create and efforts you put for your partner

My grandpa didn't make any will yet and some of the house which we have given for rent all that money goes to my tauji because he accused my father of keeping the money to himself when he was putting it in my grandpa's bank account, every shop every house that we've given for rent everything goes to my tauji and in few years I think land distribution will start to Happen

We live in a big 3 floor bunglow witch 3-4 chawls given on rent and 3-4 shopes given on rent

My father has never been financially stable thus he always felt very inferior lf himself and the fact that every single of my relative is rich except my father so they don't include my father in anything , meri behen ki shaadi hai and my father's name is not even involved the the list of family members name , my parents have always been naive and just agreed whatever everyone said even my mom is excluded from almost everything my female relatives do , my taiji is like ectrem manipulative bua , and all sabke kaan bharke apne tarah kar liya and showed somehow ki khud ne kitna struggle Kiya hai but literally she does nothing al day

My mom wakes up and she's in the kitchen at 6 am means she wakes up at least at 5 , and on the other hand my taiji wakes up at 8 am araam se , and doesn't even help in the kitchen

I am 18 only and really want to ensure we get fair share in the land distribution, there's no way my grandpa will make a will

How do I do that? How do I make sure we get fair share in the land distribution?