I have a crush (finally after non having one for 4 years) on a masc woman where I volunteer. She's so cute, kind, friendly, and calm. She smiles a lot, says hi when she sees me across the hall, very welcoming, invites me to ask her any questions, etc. I get so nervous around and literally cannot smile 😭. Then I feel my face blushing, it's so embarrassing. She probably thinks I hate her 😔. I do try to ask her questions/help whenever I can think of something, and sincerely thank her when she does something for me. Though, at the back of my head, I try so hard to hide the fact that I like her. Ughhh
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I have a crush (finally after non having one for 4 years) on a masc woman where I volunteer. She's so cute, kind, friendly, and calm. She smiles a lot, says hi when she sees me across the hall, very welcoming, invites me to ask her any questions, etc. I get so nervous around and literally cannot smile 😭. Then I feel my face blushing, it's so embarrassing. She probably thinks I hate her 😔. I do try to ask her questions/help whenever I can think of something, and sincerely thank her when she does something for me. Though, at the back of my head, I try so hard to hide the fact that I like her.
I've (26F, fem presenting) started volunteering recently and am developing a crush on one of the full time employees. I try to hide it the best I can since I don't want her to feel uncomfortable at her workplace. I'm not sure if she's interested, though she is masc presenting, remembers my name, smiles a lot when we chat, often looks at my lips, and asks me questions. I havent seen her enough to know if she treats everyone this way.
If there's a woman volunteering where you work, how would you feel if she pursued you? Would you want her not to? If you won't mind a woman pursuing you at work, is there anything you'd want her to do differently because you're at work (such as appear more discrete)?