u/Brave-Kiwi-183

I've had the same friendship group for about 10 years. This is an online friendship group, btw I'm not sure that matters. My main friend inside the group has come to me for advice on relationships before, the main time 2 years ago. When a female in the group blocked a couple of people , so he me and a couple others had long discussions about why and what It meant. So we essentially decided to part with a couple others as well I guess you could call it a friend group split. Well about a few months ago he started talking to them again I felt a little betrayed and more annoyed. So things have felt uncomfortable talking to him when I have. Even with that, every single discussion is the same 3 or 4 topics. Just feels like so boring and redonedent. How should I handle this ?

I had 18k saved less than a year ago, and after having to buy a new car + other unexpected & careless spending, im down to 6,500. I work for a company that offers a 401k match and direct to Roth option. I'm just curious about what I should do? Buckle down and push as much as possible into savings or push as much as i can to 401k and roth im not rich, just a blue collar 9-5 loser.