u/Big_Zookeepergame_47

Assalam hope everyone doing well. This may sound funny but im serious. Im a young men who v been in love of the idea of having twins for years. I know its qadar and i dont really care about the gender.

I searched it turned out that the odds are high if u r family has twins espicially in mom side (but my whole family dont) and womens around 35-40 has the highest odds. and there is some doctor treatments and meds which can raise the odds. But im not sure if its halal.

Is there someone in this subreddit who have been blessed with twins. Or any kid. Share with us. Thank you'

Pls make duaa for me to have twins

Assalam im 19M. (im a carrer oriented guy and see myself in future in good position. But currently working) Im originally half brazilian half europian (LOOKING FOR ADVICE AND HONEST OPINIONS ofc with respect) and nikah been on my mind in a long time and i hope people who married in young age tell their experiences. Also there is a hadith if a mumin good guy or girl decides to marry to guard his chastity then allah required himself to help and provide for him (any one experienced that) :

So i am a hybrid athlete. I had personal experiences in faith. And i want to be hafiz in my twenties and learn. I can say im educated on islam and dealing with people. So get to the point i become serious on my faith. My social circle is guys doing zina. I have strict boundaries on this i dont even handshake girls. I can say im a guy who allah has gifted me looks and physique. And genetics. And i tested and i found i have higher than average testosterone

At the same time im active (UNIVERSITY/ CHALISTENICS / MARTIAL ARTS/ WEIGHTS LIFTING, swimming) and those place are mixed. There is alot of girls. And those girls really really press my buttons (i do guard my heart and body. I lower my gaze). Im not trynna reason anything. Those girls really really tease and flirt. They too many times physical harassed which i told them how i feel about it. But they really didnt stop. When i talk to someone i talk respectfully. They flirt and harass verbally and physically (im not some monk. At those times there is really a fight between my desires and faith). Alhamdulilah havent fell on anything. I LITERALLY STOPPED GOING TO UNI AND AVOIDING PLACES I LIKE BCS I DONT WANT MY BUTTONS PUSHED. BCS IM SCARED TO FALL INTO THE SIN. BCS THERE IS HIGH RISK AND I FEEL LIKE IM SENSITIVE (SOME situation that happend that im not going to share details. Is make me really look at the sky while the girl is near me and say oh lord have mercy)

When i asked the friends i have that do zina about marriage they say until like 35. (it is reasonable in this economy as it is so hard nearly impossible. And with again familys high exeptation when u want halal it makes it nearly impossible to marry before 35). Which make me like "HOW TF CAN I WAIT UNTIL 35"

i gotta clarify im not some lusty man (i dont even engage in p@onogeaphy or any sexual activity ever) . Ive got matured up and had experiences and i see people in social circly between 20-35 still engaging in bad habits and are not mature. Like i said. And literally my dream is to have peaceful and loving wife and a daughter. And i understand the requires and learnt and rights and obligations in marriage (AND ofc we re all still learning)

Tl;dr: 19M battling fitnah and harassment in mixed environements. Whole friends do zina and they said they will marry until after 35. It reached a level of falling at the sin where i absence at university and alot of things i love just to guard myself. (not lusty. I dont do any p@rnography or sexu@l activitys at all). My actual dream is to have a wife and daugbter. I can say im someone who is educated islamicly. and the issue why i cant marry yet is bcs of the low salaries and costs of living. And the unrealistic familys exceptation (read the post to understand the details)

Assalam im 19M. (im a carrer oriented guy and see myself in future in good position. But currently working) Im originally half brazilian half europian (LOOKING FOR ADVICE AND HONEST OPINIONS ofc with respect) and nikah been on my mind in a long time and i hope people who married in young age tell their experiences. Also there is a hadith if a mumin good guy or girl decides to marry to guard his chastity then allah required himself to help and provide for him (any one experienced that) :

So i am a hybrid athlete. I had personal experiences in faith. And i want to be hafiz in my twenties and learn. I can say im educated on islam and dealing with people. So get to the point i become serious on my faith. My social circle is guys doing zina. I have strict boundaries on this i dont even handshake girls. I can say im a guy who allah has gifted me looks and physique. And genetics. And i tested and i found i have higher than average testosterone

At the same time im active (UNIVERSITY/ CHALISTENICS / MARTIAL ARTS/ WEIGHTS LIFTING, swimming) and those place are mixed. There is alot of girls. And those girls really really press my buttons (i do guard my heart and body. I lower my gaze). Im not trynna reason anything. Those girls really really tease and flirt. They too many times physical harassed which i told them how i feel about it. But they really didnt stop. When i talk to someone i talk respectfully. They flirt and harass verbally and physically (im not some monk. At those times there is really a fight between my desires and faith). Alhamdulilah havent fell on anything. I LITERALLY STOPPED GOING TO UNI AND AVOIDING PLACES I LIKE BCS I DONT WANT MY BUTTONS PUSHED. BCS IM SCARED TO FALL INTO THE SIN. BCS THERE IS HIGH RISK AND I FEEL LIKE IM SENSITIVE (SOME situation that happend that im not going to share details. Is make me really look at the sky while the girl is near me and say oh lord have mercy)

When i asked the friends i have that do zina about marriage they say until like 35. (it is reasonable in this economy as it is so hard nearly impossible. And with again familys high exeptation when u want halal it makes it nearly impossible to marry before 35). Which make me like "HOW TF CAN I WAIT UNTIL 35"

i gotta clarify im not some lusty man (i dont even engage in p@onogeaphy or any sexual activity ever) . Ive got matured up and had experiences and i see people in social circly between 20-35 still engaging in bad habits and are not mature. Like i said. And literally my dream is to have peaceful and loving wife and a daughter. And i understand the requires and learnt and rights and obligations in marriage (AND ofc we re all still learning)