u/Big_Pea3882

Like it’s all the same worry like I (M21) wanna have kids, buy house, buy a car and stuff like that and hopefully get a degree but you need to have a job and be able to make good enough money to support kids, buy car, buy house, get degree and i know I could find a good job but what ifs take over

Like what if I lose a job and I can’t support any of those or especially a kid? Are my worried valid or Aio?

LI’ve (M21) been told all sorts of advice by guy and girl friends about dating like flirt, act yourself, actually be interested in them and tbh i only really get feelings for someone once im friends and I’m just wondering is it normal to get rejected hundreds of times before yes?

Reason I ask if moms because I try to use dating apps and have no liked in 2 years of use, girls I’ve been setup with havnt actually done it, never got a yea

I’ve been told im attractive, funny, i can hold convos well and im witty and tbh im just not sure how I have this much bad luck.