How come when we hear positive powerful talk, it has more belief in that than over own voice ?
Some people when they speak or talk to you about being positive you tend to believe in them immediately and feel inspired and no matter how many times you say those exact same words it does not carry the same effect ? Often it does the opposite.
I have often caught myself living a victim mindset.
When people ask me how are you ? How was your weekend ? Or something similar, my responses carry self pity in them to get some sympathy out of people on which I feed and feel a bit good, not sure about myself but that sympathy gives me some energy to cling BUT also reenforces this mindset.
I can't even imagine what living without complaining or asking for sympathy is now. Don't understand why people are happy on smallest and simplest of things. Seeing them my mind goes what have they done so much for being happy ? I have connected my happiness only to achieving something big.
How to get rid of this victim and self pity mindset ?
I have often caught myself living a victim mindset.
When people ask me how are you ? How was your weekend ? Or something similar, my responses carry self pity in them to get some sympathy out of people on which I feed and feel a bit good, not sure about myself but that sympathy gives me some energy to cling BUT also reenforces this mindset.
I can't even imagine what living without complaining or asking for sympathy is now. Don't understand why people are happy on smallest and simplest of things. Seeing them my mind goes what have they done so much for being happy ? I have connected my happiness only to achieving something big.
How to get rid of this victim and self pity mindset ?
I have often caught myself living a victim mindset.
When people ask me how are you ? How was your weekend ? Or something similar, my responses carry self pity in them to get some sympathy out of people on which I feed and feel a bit good, not sure about myself but that sympathy gives me some energy to cling BUT also reenforces this mindset.
I can't even imagine what living without complaining or asking for sympathy is now. Don't understand why people are happy on smallest and simplest of things. Seeing them my mind goes what have they done so much for being happy ? I have connected my happiness only to achieving something big.
How to get rid of this victim and self pity mindset ?