u/Big-Horror7049

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Hello everyone,

I’m not sure if this is the right place to ask, but I wanted to share something I’ve been dealing with and see if anyone has insight. I’ve experienced performance anxiety for a few years, though I didn’t think much of it at first since I was mostly bottoming at the time.

More recently, I’ve found that I’d like to top more, and while I’ve managed to a few times, it’s been inconsistent. Even with things like sex enhancers or weed, I often have difficulty maintaining an erection long enough for penetration—and sometimes the issue starts even earlier.
I’m wondering if anyone has experience with this or knows of methods, techniques, or types of therapy that might help. I’d really appreciate any advice or suggestions.

Thank you in advance.

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u/Big-Horror7049 — 14 days ago

Hello everyone,

I’m not sure if this is the right place to ask, but I wanted to share something I’ve been dealing with and see if anyone has insight. I’ve experienced performance anxiety for a few years, though I didn’t think much of it at first since I was mostly bottoming at the time.

More recently, I’ve found that I’d like to top more, and while I’ve managed to a few times, it’s been inconsistent. Even with things like sex enhancers or weed, I often have difficulty maintaining an erection long enough for penetration—and sometimes the issue starts even earlier.
I’m wondering if anyone has experience with this or knows of methods, techniques, or types of therapy that might help. I’d really appreciate any advice or suggestions.

Thank you in advance.

reddit.com
u/Big-Horror7049 — 14 days ago