32F here, married to 28M. My husband and I have been married for just over 2 months, and honestly life is so great. I never thought I could really be as happy as I am, every day.
I'm pretty traditional, and what I mean by that is that I reclaimed my virginity over a decade ago after some years in college that I really really regret, and we kept our relationship abstinent for the three years we were dating until we were married. My husband never made a big deal about it, and when the time finally came for us to be intimate, it was a truly truly amazing experience.
My husband seems to know exactly how to please me, and has yet to fail to bring me to an orgasm. In fact, most of the time we have sex, I usually have more than one, and one night on our honeymoon I had four within like an hour and a half. So in that regard, sex has been going extremely well for me. However, this is also where the problem lies: I don't think he has had an orgasm yet. As in, we have sex, (and he's not wearing a condom that I haven't noticed by the way, some of my friends have already suggested that) and he never ejaculates, and there's no semen.
He seems to be enjoying himself, and he definitely initiates a lot of our sessions, night and day, and he never seems to run out of energy, but I have yet to see him finish. I ask him all the time if he's attracted to me, or if there's something I can change to make sex better for him, and he just tells me how great I am and how lucky he feels to be with me, which is nice and sweet but doesn't exactly solve the problem.
I feel really bad when we stop, either because I'm getting sore or worn out, or for whatever other reasons like needing to go to work etc, and I had all these orgasms and he had nothing. I don't understand why I can't seem to do that for him. I hate that I'm seemingly not adept enough to bring him to finish. Another layer on top of that is that my biological clock is ticking, and if we want kids we don't exactly have a lot of time to mess around like this.
In a previous phase of my life, this was never an issue. If anything, my partners would typically finish way too fast.
Another thing, too, that I can't seem to stop spiraling over is that one of his exes is currently a stripper, and I've seen her instagram, and I don't really know how I'm supposed to compete with her physically, especially if I can't make my husband finish. I know he probably isn't going to go back to her, but I can't help but think he compares me to her and maybe feels a little disappointed. I hate thinking that but I do every time he rolls over and falls asleep after we make love.
anyways, TLDR, my husband is very good at sex, but I can't seem to make him finish, and I really don't understand why.