u/Benzouken

I always write long posts but I usually get no responses, so let me try to be quick

I am 23, dark brown hair and dark brown eyes, slim, 178 cm tall.

I am vegan. I am agnostic. I care for people and animals a lot. I do not tolerate discrimination of any kind (racism, homophobia, transphobia etc.)

I do not want kids under any circumstances. I have my own issues and mental problems and I struggled a lot in my years growing up with all kinds of things (depression mostly, which I still have to an extent), I do not want anyone else to go through that, so no children. Not to mention the world is pretty bad now (THAT is an understatement, folks). So if I ever considered kids at all, adoption is the only way, but not counting on that either.

I am introverted and socially anxious but I can communicate pretty well. It's just that my social battery isn't limitless, especially with people I do not yet know.

I love anime, manga, video games, music, very slowly getting back into reading. Want to get into old Japanese films, taking care of plants, cooking/baking, playing musical instruments, drawing. The issue is that I am currently unemployed and not fully sure what I want to do in life, so I did not get to start a lot of these hobbies just yet. I am very happy nonetheless and do my best to be kind and positive always.

About you:

Most importantly, be kind and tolerant of any people that just try to do your best and live their life.

Be vegan or vegetarian, or at least mostly vegan.

No offense to anyone, but as an exchristian, I do not want a religious partner, so please be agnostic or atheist or something along those lines.

Also be sure to not want kids.

I do not really care for looks, but do your best to take care of your health. Again, no offense, but my only requirement is that you are not like morbidly obese or super skinny to the point of not being healthy. I understand that these things are sometimes not fully controllable and difficult to manage (be it mental health or any conditions), but though physical attractiveness is by no means the most important part in a relationship, but it is still important to an extent, hence why I have this requirement.

Lastly, be at least 20 years old, and ideally not older than 25-27.

Looking at this, I failed spectacularly in cutting down the amount written and I still feel like I didn't say nearly anything.

In any case, if you are interested at all please be sure to message me. You can tell me your favorite color so I know you read all this (though this isn't foulproof as you could have just skipped to the last paragraph, alas my security system has holes, that's life innit, I am not british)

Anyways, that's all, I am now heading to sleep as it is 3 am and I have a job interview in 7 hours, woohoo, life is just grand innit.

So, I am 23 years old, I tried studying two separate degrees before but I just couldn't do it. Not because it's too hard but because I just didn't care enough about it (social work first, then english).

Now I am 23, looking for a job in any field basically but I still don't care about anything enough. And even if I do, I am never sure if my interest persists or not, so my decision making is crippled in that way.

A part of me is satisfied just living a quiet life, working some random jobs and focusing on my hobbies in my free time, but at the same time... Sometimes I feel like I want more from life, I want to truly live and do good, help people. Of course you can also volunteer etc. but I wish I had some job like that at some points.. but at this point all jobs that you can meaningfully help people and ideally also travel the world as you do, you require degrees to have them. And I got nothing, no energy, no super strong interest. It's frustrating...

Anyone have similar problems? Feeling split and lost in life?

I am european btw.

(Not sure what tag to use so I used this one)

Hello,

I've been looking for someone via this subreddit for a few months now. I have a few friends, my family etc. so I am not completely alone, but at the same time, for the first time in my life I feel like I lack a more deeper companionship.

That being said, I wish I could find someone to connect with on a really deep level. It's probably best we start off as friends anyways, since having an SO who is not only that but also my best friend sounds absolutely lovely.

Anyways, a little about me, I am a left leaning person, I try my best to be kind and good when I can, I do not discriminate anyone (absolutely no homophobia, transphobia, sexism, racism or any of that). I am agnostic and I would prefer if you were that or atheist as well. I am vegan, and it is quite the important part of my life, so please be at least vegetarian. I also don't want to ever have kids.

As far as looks go, I do not have crazy high requirements. Just try your best to take of your health and don't be fat or slim to extremely unhealthy levels. You don't even have to be in shape or anything necessarily, since I am not either, but yeah.

Also, please be at least 20 and not older than 25-27, thank you.

And most importantly please do your best to be a kind person, that is all I ask.

As far as my looks go, I am white, have dark brown hair and dark brown eyes, am 178 cm tall and have a slim build.

My interests range from video games to walks in natures to reading (manga, but lately getting back into books). I also plan on starting to cook more and learn how to bake. Learning to play musical instruments and drawing is also something I want to do later on.

One fun fact I guess? I plan to move to Norway (though this technically still may change) in my life, ideally in the next 3-4 years, so just a heads up. If you are from Scandinavia that would be great, though it absolutely isn't a requierement.

Please be european or in a timezone that is not too different from the european ones, as from experience, communication can be very problematic if the time difference is too big.

I realize that my requirements aren't the easiest, especially concerning being vegetarian/vegan and not wanting kids ever. But it is crucially important to me and if I am to spend my whole life with someone, which is to say, my intention here, I need someone who I can share this with.

Anyways, that's all, probably missed some things, So do not hesitate to ask questions if you decide to message me. But please, open with your own introduction

Hello,

so I am looking for someone that I can genuinely spent the rest of my life with. I will preface this that I am very simple in the way I approach life. I do not have crazy high ambitions, there are some countries I want to visit or maybe even move to but not that many. As long as I can have a few friends, a significant other and my family by my side, I should be happy, no matter what job or whatever else I do. I think it is important that I mention that I am not looking to have children ever, can this change later on? Technically yes, but I do not expect it, and you shouldn't as well. So please, do not message me, if you are interested in having kids, thank you.

I do not have super high expectations either, just be a kind accepting person who does not discriminate people (I am very "woke" and left leaning) and try your best to take care of yourself in all regards. I know this isn't always easy, trust me, I struggle with a lot of issues mentally (depression, anxiety etc.) but trying is pretty good if you ask me. I am looking for someone in the 20 - 25 range ideally. And be European, so we can meet up easily eventually, and also so time zones aren't an issue. One last thing though, I am not religious nor do I intend to be, so please be atheist or agnostic.

My hobbies include anime, video games, will get back to reading this year and after I settle better in the current city I live in (I moved recently), I want to explore some musical instruments and learning to draw.

I have a slim build though I do not necessarily exercise currently, I will also start that this year, a lot of stuff has been changing in my life recently, so I am taking some steps slow.

Anyways, I am kinda awkward, especially over call but I think we can take it slow. If we respect each other and share values, and ideally some hobbies as well, then I think we can get along and equally grow from there not only as a budding couple but also as individuals.

If you are interested, do not hesitate to message me

Heyya, 23 year old european here! Specifically from Czechia. I will state right away that I am looking for someone from Europe due to closer proximity and eventual easier meet up if we do get along.

I've never had a girlfriend in my life, but quite honestly, I would love to have someone who will stay by my side (And I by theirs) till the end of the world if fate wills it... Probably being overly dramatic but yeah :D

Anyways, I will start with my looks. I am decent looking, not by any means handsome really, but I don't think I am ugly either (though both handome and ugly is incredibly subjective of course). I am 178 cm tall, have dark brown hair, dark brown eyes. I do not really workout these days, but I am still quite slim (not too slim).

I try my best to be a kind person every day and live by the golden rule. I lean left politically and do not discriminate anyone on the basis of something they cannot control, be it sexuality, race, gender etc.

I am agnostic, and would like someone who also is agnostic or atheist. You can interested in spiritual things (I am interested in stuff like that too, be it talking about the afterlife, researching different mythologies etc.) but I don't think I would get along too well with anyone from major religions, especially those that try to convert others a lot of the time.

I am also vegan, I would like for you to be as well, or at least vegetarian.

I do not want kids, ever. Nor do I see myself having them or changing my mind, ever.

As far as my interests go, I dabble in philosophy sometimes, but I like video games as many do, I like stories no matter their form, though I mostly consume them through said videogames, anime or manga/manhwa. I am also slowly getting back into reading books though!

I am currently unemployed though I am working hard to find a job, it's rough out here though lol.

I already mentioned some of my requirements above, but basically, I want a kind accepting person who is more "woke" though I dislike using that word since now it just means being a decent person.

As far as looks go, I do not have major requirements. Just one thing, I don't want anyone who is like obese, nothing against you of course, but even if it is a bit vain, physicsl attractivity does play some role in a relationship sadly. Other than that just take care of your health and hygiene as best you can.

Anyways, that's all, if you are at all interested, do not hesitate to message me!